01-17-2016, 03:51 PM
(01-17-2016, 09:16 AM)James_Sky Wrote: I agree with you Sarge saying that passive aggression means your on the right path.
If we renamed passive aggression to emotional aggression and plain aggression to physical aggression then its easier to start seeing it as it it. Emotional Aggression is a way to try and control you, is designed to make you doubt yourself, to bring you down, to induce fear and anxiety- Iv'e met some very seedy males who do it and loads of females.
The way to counter emotional aggression is to call it out- it completely throws them off because it's designed to be subtle, to be something which you can't call them out on without completely destroying the atmosphere- sure they will play dumb but don't back down, keep saying they’ve got a sly passive aggressive attitude and that you don’t like it, that puts them in a position where they will either have to stop or physically fight you- because they have to resort to emotional aggression in the first place I doubt they will want to fight you. I’ve had to call someone out before for talking behind my back in front of about 12 people, he played dumb, his mates called me paranoid but I didn’t back down- told them straight to pack that shit in. I doubt he has stopped though just got quieter- I haven’t head his sly remarks since.
I think there is a lot of groups that hide behind the 'respect your whatever' phrase.
Why the hell should I respect my elders what the hell have they done for me? All the ones worth any respect due to WW2 are dead, the rest are these baby booming pricks who have ruined the economy. With women I don't respect them just because they are women- that’s not to say I don't disrespect them but they don't get any special treatment just because they are women. A hell of a lot of women out there my age are simply stupid entitled shits- They haven’t got a clue about anything.
That's not to say I don't disrespect people, I am polite and courteous to everyone and I'm appalled at peoples bad manners, honestly how hard is it to say please and thank you.
If anyone deserves respect they get it without needing to hide behind the 'respect your whatever' BS
All this respect nonsense is just another to control young males, The amount bad mannered middle aged women i've encountered since I can remember is astounding, they don’t say thank you when I hold a door open for them, they think they can take up more than one space on the metro, Either they are ***** dumb and they don’t understand how rude they are or they are feel entitled enough to be bad mannered either way I'm sick of them- I swear once their period dry's up and they become obsolete they take out the fact on young stallions like me.
You’re always going to face jealousy and adversity when you’re trying to succeed and make a name for yourself, to become someone better, people will team against you and try everything they can to bring you down, **** them- they’re all pricks. I only have one or two close friends that I tell all the stuff i'm up too because I want them to succeed and even then they don’t listen, I told one about this forum and ASC last year and he has ran it probably 6 times in six months- you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. The psychologist Carl Jung said that about 70% of psychologists have a thing called wounded savour syndrome, this is where you try and help yourself by helping other people- Think if you have that and then think '**** people what have people done for me, why the hell should I even try- and the answer is you shouldn’t, live life for yourself- be selfish and succeed- other people could do it too if they weren’t so ***** stupid- believed the ***** they read on the news and literally only cared about football or celebrity culture.
you will face adversity especially from people who think they can do something, In art class i messed around most of the time because I thought it was waste of my time when I could be doing something like chemistry- The teacher was a meanie as well. This one exam I decided to actually try and draw, got the highest grade in the class and pissed off the self professed 'artsy' chick, other pieces i did where better than hers and she didn’t like it. Loads of passive aggression from her the next couple of years and her ***** friends too.
Its a tactic - Think about how much you think about the people who you don;t even care about and what they have said and then think about how much better that time would be spent doing something productive like reading or fitness,
**** em
you don’t need them.
Wounded Savior syndrome is what every hums has and the archetype that controls that is the Chiron one. At he wounded healer. Chiron was the greatest healer in all of Olympis but got shot in a crossfire of arrows between his student Hercules and the other wild centaurs. The wound he was unable to heal himself with his skills but the pain was so much he asked Zeus to take away his immortality so he could die. Every human has this archetype in them and the way to heal this is to help other people in this area where you have this wound.
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UD Start Date: November 1st, 2017- January 19th 2018
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