03-17-2011, 09:07 AM
(03-16-2011, 07:43 PM)Jeff Wrote: There is no reason to be anxious when you go out. You are going to go eat with your buds, what is there to be nervous about?
I have a cool exercise that will help you out loads. Go to a very popular place, that is full of many people throughout the day (preferably the mall on a saturday). Find a comfortable chair. Relax yourself mentally and physically. And just look at people for an hour or so. I did this a couple times, took my iPod so the time would pass faster. Looking people in their eyes is as easy as breathing. The key is relaxation. A soft confident gaze is always more powerful than forced, intense eye contact. Seduction community people are famous for the latter. I can spot them a mile away now.
Now go back and do this without your ipod.
If you're searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror!