11-23-2015, 06:06 AM
(This post was last modified: 11-23-2015, 06:15 AM by JackOfHearts.)
I didn't notice a drop in confidence when I switched from ASC to AM6.
I also don't believe what people say about the supposed tone down. Being a dick or overly cocky isn't confidence. In fact a lot of people are very cocky to an extreme and that in itself show someone who isn't confident. But most people won't noticed that. Shutting your mouth when it's the best decision you can make can be hard if you feel insecure and needs to open your mouth when you shouldn't, then getting into a fight for nothing. Or trying to prove a point that is completely useless. But you do it because you aren't confident enough to shut your mouth, being afraid people will see someone shy if you shut your mouth.
I'm not saying you are like that, it's just an example.
But maybe I'm wrong though.
AM6 to me is more subtle, less cocky, less show off, more internal strength, reliability, being a man, responsible, doing what's need to be done. That in my opinion might be a
turn off to some kind of girls who attract/like unconsciously a man who is very cocky but lacks real internal strength. Woman who likes short term gratification.
I say that because I have been surprised by some of my friends who are very confident, but that confidence isn't obvious, or as shiny/attractive. On the other spectrum you can have some friend that shows that extreme confidence or some kind of show when they come into a room. But when things get though it's not the same, and their lack of internal strength is apparent when you look at their life overall.
I think the hardest part to be an alpha male is that it takes times unless you are born gifted with that skill. And even when you are gifted it takes time before people recognized that you are someone trustworthy. It's not something that happened in one night. On the other hand being the cocky asshole who is weak inside is much more faster to be. But the long term effectiveness may not be what you want.
You can also see that difference when you compare a man to a female attractiveness. Female doesn't need to build trust as much as a man. Most man doesn't look for that quality. A lying woman has much more chance to get what she want that a man lying. Because woman doesn't need to be as trustworthy as a man. It's one reason woman even when they are young they are much more successful with love/relantionship. They don't need to have that trust. On the other hand for a man it's takes time and the men are more successful/attractive when they get older, when they are reliable and trustworthy.
Long term VS short term success.
I also don't believe what people say about the supposed tone down. Being a dick or overly cocky isn't confidence. In fact a lot of people are very cocky to an extreme and that in itself show someone who isn't confident. But most people won't noticed that. Shutting your mouth when it's the best decision you can make can be hard if you feel insecure and needs to open your mouth when you shouldn't, then getting into a fight for nothing. Or trying to prove a point that is completely useless. But you do it because you aren't confident enough to shut your mouth, being afraid people will see someone shy if you shut your mouth.
I'm not saying you are like that, it's just an example.
But maybe I'm wrong though.
AM6 to me is more subtle, less cocky, less show off, more internal strength, reliability, being a man, responsible, doing what's need to be done. That in my opinion might be a
turn off to some kind of girls who attract/like unconsciously a man who is very cocky but lacks real internal strength. Woman who likes short term gratification.
I say that because I have been surprised by some of my friends who are very confident, but that confidence isn't obvious, or as shiny/attractive. On the other spectrum you can have some friend that shows that extreme confidence or some kind of show when they come into a room. But when things get though it's not the same, and their lack of internal strength is apparent when you look at their life overall.
I think the hardest part to be an alpha male is that it takes times unless you are born gifted with that skill. And even when you are gifted it takes time before people recognized that you are someone trustworthy. It's not something that happened in one night. On the other hand being the cocky asshole who is weak inside is much more faster to be. But the long term effectiveness may not be what you want.
You can also see that difference when you compare a man to a female attractiveness. Female doesn't need to build trust as much as a man. Most man doesn't look for that quality. A lying woman has much more chance to get what she want that a man lying. Because woman doesn't need to be as trustworthy as a man. It's one reason woman even when they are young they are much more successful with love/relantionship. They don't need to have that trust. On the other hand for a man it's takes time and the men are more successful/attractive when they get older, when they are reliable and trustworthy.
Long term VS short term success.
