09-13-2015, 02:04 PM
(09-13-2015, 04:56 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: Just to give you an idea of how I'm approaching this... I used to go out to nightclubs, I don't drink, don't smoke, don't do recreational drugs, and don't dance.
I love parks, now I go to them when I have free time to feed the squirrels peanuts. This is something my "perfect" lover should enjoy if we are going to hang out. Will I meet her at a park?? I don't know... I do know if she is on the same wavelengths as me she won't be in a nightclub waiting for me to walk in.
I'm sure you have specific interests or hobbies that you could get involved in. One of my friends hides his video games and comic books when he invites a girl to his place. I think he should embrace it and let her know that's his thing. Anyway, he gets the girl, she finds out he's a geek/nerd and she dumps him for hiding it from her. Now he's bummed out.
So just pretend for a moment you go to Home Depot for one of their weekend clinics to learn about basic electricity. You see her and she is everything you could have hope for and imagined, she sees you and OMG... she walks over to you because you just happen to be at the same class as her and the rest is history. How much effort did that take on your part??? You showed up!!!
I like your chain of thought. But it's my subconscious that has it all sorted out not my conscious mind. Conscious likes and dislikes don't matter too much in this way. It's best just to keep an open mind and go with the flow.
