(08-24-2015, 12:10 PM)Shannon Wrote:(08-24-2015, 11:52 AM)waahbeta Wrote: Guilt= I have done something bad which only I or few know. I feel heartbroken fr doing it. I shouldn't have done it. I could have avoided it.
Shame : I did something which is quite embarrassing which few to many to almost all know. I should have been cautious.
Fear : if I do this, what will others think.
I have done something, what will others think if they come to know I did it. I shouldn't do this. It will affect my reputation. Others will know that I am not as strong, as good, as blah blah, they are.
You are simplifying too much, and I don't think you really understand these states well by the definitions you give.
I guess I just interpreted what it means for me at the moment
Mostly I think it's right and I've been right n just misunderstood cos I used 'blah blah' in it. Cos ' blah blah' is just too childish.
But I'd also like to get it explained/learn from u as m still a noob in front of u.