07-10-2014, 11:24 AM
@ Ricardo
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
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Well the idea of the sub is sex based but what you are saying is that your knowledge of say nuclear physics is greater than a nuclear physicist!
No you definitely do not know better than your subconscious! At the end of the day give the sub a go. If it works you can evaluate the situation and your feelings etc afterwards. Then if you're not happy, end the relationship and move on..nothing ventured nothing gained!
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
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Well the idea of the sub is sex based but what you are saying is that your knowledge of say nuclear physics is greater than a nuclear physicist!
No you definitely do not know better than your subconscious! At the end of the day give the sub a go. If it works you can evaluate the situation and your feelings etc afterwards. Then if you're not happy, end the relationship and move on..nothing ventured nothing gained!
