07-09-2014, 12:52 PM
@ IainLPplus44
It's not exactly an anxiety I feel. I don't feel anxious or anything, or if it is an anxiety that I feel, it certainly is not something really huge to be really registered as anxiety. (Trust me, I know what an anxiety feel like to a point that I couldn't even leave my place.) But as mentioned, I don't know why but I just can't get past that last barrier to approach women... It's gotten better that I am more talkative, but only in a point that it wouldn't be socially out of norm or awkward.
Anyway, I appreciate your opinion and recommendation on this matter.
@ Ricardo
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
It's not exactly an anxiety I feel. I don't feel anxious or anything, or if it is an anxiety that I feel, it certainly is not something really huge to be really registered as anxiety. (Trust me, I know what an anxiety feel like to a point that I couldn't even leave my place.) But as mentioned, I don't know why but I just can't get past that last barrier to approach women... It's gotten better that I am more talkative, but only in a point that it wouldn't be socially out of norm or awkward.
Anyway, I appreciate your opinion and recommendation on this matter.
@ Ricardo
Subconscious part makes me feel a bit worried. The perfect "sexual" lover may have different meaning in my subconscious mind than in my conscious mind. The definition for perfect sexual in my subconscious mind may be that I have sex with the lover all the time, which I cannot handle or take at present moment or near future. (It would be great in one sense, but if that gets in my other important area of the life, then it's a problem.) It may not be the definition. I wish I can find out what that definition is for my subconscious mind.
