07-09-2014, 10:12 AM
(07-08-2014, 07:28 PM)sw72hw Wrote: @Ricardo,
Is the perfectness' definition from conscious or subconscious mind? I feel that things are going to be a bit different. And also, my sense of perfect lover is that the love will be there, (and sex and etc....) but it won't interfere or get in the way of my other goals. (which is in my conscious sense, and I'm not sure what a PSL would be under my subconscious) However, Shannon's description of his experience and his comments on this journal makes me think that my PSL may not fit that category of definition.
This is where my dilemma lies.
It's the subconcious because although your conscious mind has what you believe to be your ideal lover, on the surface, perhaps, pretty blonde with big boobies, your subconscious has a more rounded view in that it knows what would benefit you absolutely, mind body and soul. The conscious mind is quite base and 'earthy' but it's the subconscious that is your better part.