07-07-2014, 07:14 PM
@Clansy
Well, you could be right that I don't have much to lose. Yet, the time I would lose may be something.
I would also love to have this solve my military requirement. Yet, I doubt if it will be able to do it.... Let's say that I'm determined to not to go back to my country until I hit age of 40, and that I meet PSL and get married. (Probably not wise idea, but let's just say it.) If this were to happen a few years ago, then it would've worked as I would have had enough time to get US citizenship to actually pull it. (The determination to not go back until age of 40 would be something else though.) Unfortunately, I'm out of time that it really wouldn't work that way.
and about what I have to lose.... I suppose it ultimately comes down to how my perfect lover will turn out. If it requires that I have sex with her too much that it starts to get in other things, then it could be a loss. (Although having lots of sex is a gain in some other sense.)
This ultimately comes down to what perfect means, and what it will look like. If perfect means compatible with my other aspects, then it may be worthwhile. If not, then I suppose I may get myself settled first and then come back to finish what I started.
@ MasterEnki
I suppose my question is sort of similar to yours. And I hope Shannon can answer both of us.
Well, you could be right that I don't have much to lose. Yet, the time I would lose may be something.
I would also love to have this solve my military requirement. Yet, I doubt if it will be able to do it.... Let's say that I'm determined to not to go back to my country until I hit age of 40, and that I meet PSL and get married. (Probably not wise idea, but let's just say it.) If this were to happen a few years ago, then it would've worked as I would have had enough time to get US citizenship to actually pull it. (The determination to not go back until age of 40 would be something else though.) Unfortunately, I'm out of time that it really wouldn't work that way.
and about what I have to lose.... I suppose it ultimately comes down to how my perfect lover will turn out. If it requires that I have sex with her too much that it starts to get in other things, then it could be a loss. (Although having lots of sex is a gain in some other sense.)
This ultimately comes down to what perfect means, and what it will look like. If perfect means compatible with my other aspects, then it may be worthwhile. If not, then I suppose I may get myself settled first and then come back to finish what I started.
@ MasterEnki
I suppose my question is sort of similar to yours. And I hope Shannon can answer both of us.
