07-04-2014, 05:11 AM
Quote:Shannon Wrote:
It sounds like you have chosen a sub that conflicts with some of your major goals, because I guarantee you, your perfect sexual lover will spend your time on sex. A lot.
I have an AYP on my list for 2015. But this (what Shannon wrote) is making me have second thoughts about using one of these.
Would AYP be a wise choice for me (see below)?
My vision (relating to sex) is to have sex once every 2 - 4 weeks.
To me, the idea of having sex every few days (or sooner) disturbs me.
At the moment career (and working towards being financially independent) is extremely important to me / taking up the majority of my time.
My living situation is in a small unit, sharing to be able to afford the rent / bills, and not having much privacy (I have my own room, but my flatmate is present most the time - he works at home).
Is it reasonable to use an AYP program and only see the other person one day (maybe night) every 2 - 4 weeks?
