04-19-2014, 01:13 AM
Master Enki, I skimmed through your posts and I notice you keep mentioning the fact that you're a virgin, you've no experience with women, you've never been on a date.
Firstly, just get that thought out of your mind. You're not a fucking virgin. You're more than that. You're more than the label many PUAs put on you (chode, beta male, etc). You maybe a good football player, a good Wow champion, or a pianist. Whatever the fuck you maybe, you're not a virgin/beta male/AFC. Don't let those PUAs fool you. The more you focus on something, the more you'll get. Focus on your strengths. Write them down on a piece of paper and read them every day.
As for your V-card ... here are some suggestions:
Use the following affirmation daily by looking at yourself right into the eyes in front of a mirror :
I allow myself to have amazing sex with a beautiful woman at age X
X = your current age + 1 year.
It doesn't matter if you're 30, 40, 50. Now you've given urself 1 year to get laid. You've taken the pressure off. Use that affirmation daily.
As for subs suggestions, here's what you need to do:
Overcome Fear or OGSF + BIATBW
do it for 3 months
the latter will change beliefs about urself. Don't count on it for manifestation. If it happens cool, if it doesn't let it be.
Then, since you've extended the deadline for your plan to get laid, you might as well use AYP Sexual lover for the next 9 months. Again, don't expect any results. Use em without any expectations.
To take the pressure off even more, promise yourself one of these things (depending on your situation):
If, after one year, you're still a virgin, get a prostitute. (Again, if this freaks you out, don't worry. Many ppl have done it that way just to get the V-card pressure off of them). Alternatively, you can go to an RSD bootcamp.
Or, aim on becoming a rich mofo in one year so that you can hire a private stripper
In short, take the focus off of your dating life and let it happen all by itself.
In my experience it takes 1.5 years to get any success with women. Neil Strauss, RSD Tyler (took more time)
Also, stay away from core PUA material. Use self development books. Work on changing your beliefs, clearing out the garbage etc.
Hope that helps, man. I don't want to see you talk about your virginity for the next 1 year.
Best of luck.
Firstly, just get that thought out of your mind. You're not a fucking virgin. You're more than that. You're more than the label many PUAs put on you (chode, beta male, etc). You maybe a good football player, a good Wow champion, or a pianist. Whatever the fuck you maybe, you're not a virgin/beta male/AFC. Don't let those PUAs fool you. The more you focus on something, the more you'll get. Focus on your strengths. Write them down on a piece of paper and read them every day.
As for your V-card ... here are some suggestions:
Use the following affirmation daily by looking at yourself right into the eyes in front of a mirror :
I allow myself to have amazing sex with a beautiful woman at age X
X = your current age + 1 year.
It doesn't matter if you're 30, 40, 50. Now you've given urself 1 year to get laid. You've taken the pressure off. Use that affirmation daily.
As for subs suggestions, here's what you need to do:
Overcome Fear or OGSF + BIATBW
do it for 3 months
the latter will change beliefs about urself. Don't count on it for manifestation. If it happens cool, if it doesn't let it be.
Then, since you've extended the deadline for your plan to get laid, you might as well use AYP Sexual lover for the next 9 months. Again, don't expect any results. Use em without any expectations.
To take the pressure off even more, promise yourself one of these things (depending on your situation):
If, after one year, you're still a virgin, get a prostitute. (Again, if this freaks you out, don't worry. Many ppl have done it that way just to get the V-card pressure off of them). Alternatively, you can go to an RSD bootcamp.
Or, aim on becoming a rich mofo in one year so that you can hire a private stripper
In short, take the focus off of your dating life and let it happen all by itself.
In my experience it takes 1.5 years to get any success with women. Neil Strauss, RSD Tyler (took more time)
Also, stay away from core PUA material. Use self development books. Work on changing your beliefs, clearing out the garbage etc.
Hope that helps, man. I don't want to see you talk about your virginity for the next 1 year.
Best of luck.
“And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.”
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