03-11-2014, 12:06 AM
Considering that Shannon has created AM (which makes you very independent/non-needy, especially towards women) as a sort of predeccor to SM or WM, I highly doubt he would make a product that leaves you NEEDING to chase women to get sex. I personally think that as men we should be active in getting the things we want and definitely not rely on women to act because we feel too comfortable/lazy/scared/entitled/etc. I think this is actually an advantage for us men, if embraced, to be able to CHOOSE who, when & where to approach. If you're a woman waiting to be approached, you have much less control over those things.
Anyway, I think its good if SM enables us to chase, when we want. Because you have to push if you want quick sex. Many girls want it as well, but you have to overwrite their conditioning/fear of being seen as a slut, so they can say that it "just happened" and not have to take any responsibility for it. Maybe 1-2 months ago I literally grabbed and carried this girl for 5 times on the way to my place, (gently) pushed in the right direction for several meters a few times, stopped many times along the way, grabbed her by the hand to get moving.. and, when finally there, she loved it and has been coming over on her own many times since. My point is that you can't always be Bondesque if you want something. E.g. there's a girl on the other side of the street, you want to talk to her, but she's getting away.. just make a fool out of yourself running between cars and shouting to get to her and start talking. It doesn't matter how she responds, the important thing is you had the courage to openly do what you wanted to do. Enabling vs. needing.
Anyway, I think its good if SM enables us to chase, when we want. Because you have to push if you want quick sex. Many girls want it as well, but you have to overwrite their conditioning/fear of being seen as a slut, so they can say that it "just happened" and not have to take any responsibility for it. Maybe 1-2 months ago I literally grabbed and carried this girl for 5 times on the way to my place, (gently) pushed in the right direction for several meters a few times, stopped many times along the way, grabbed her by the hand to get moving.. and, when finally there, she loved it and has been coming over on her own many times since. My point is that you can't always be Bondesque if you want something. E.g. there's a girl on the other side of the street, you want to talk to her, but she's getting away.. just make a fool out of yourself running between cars and shouting to get to her and start talking. It doesn't matter how she responds, the important thing is you had the courage to openly do what you wanted to do. Enabling vs. needing.
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.
