09-25-2010, 08:02 PM
Well, tonight I finally decided to feed my urge to socialize because I had a dream about this a few days ago. I went out and I had a great time. I was at one bar for about 1 hour and 45 minutes. I met the bartendress and she was beautiful. She was quite interested and asked me some questions but I did my best to keep the mystery. I asked her about what she was doing and how things were and what she wanted to do after college. We didn't get each others names but after some ninja like observations her boyfriend was present in the vacinity. Around the time I left I went back to say good bye to her and it was a pleasure talking with her and her boyfriend's friend was sitting at the bar this time around so she had to behave herself. I could tell she had to force herself to act much more lady like and polite so that was fine. I didn't give her my number.
Other than that I had 1 group of girls approach me and asked me to take a couple of pictures of them so I did. I chose not to socialize with them because I didn't care much for them I was just being gentlemanly.
Then a couple of other girls approached me. They were sorority sisters and my connection with the brunette was incredible and she matched my list of what I'm looking for in women. they were saying this and that it's our time to celebrate and we're getting a shot blah blah. It was loud in there so I assumed they were getting me a shot too so I stood up and opened my body language more but they were not expecting it because after I got their names the brunette said "It was nice to meet you" then winked with her left eye but she was not smiling. I definitly could have gotten her hot with some alpha attitude but I guess I'm not there yet nor driven enough to care. I must have not given off the right vibe for her.
Either way I finished up the night sitting out on the outdoor porch just checkin out everyone making their way into the bar as I finished my beer. I headed home with a bigger smile on my face than I had while in the bar lol. I def. enjoyed myself and the music. I even played an arcade game of bowling. I'll have to do that again in a couple of months to see what happens then.
Other than that I had 1 group of girls approach me and asked me to take a couple of pictures of them so I did. I chose not to socialize with them because I didn't care much for them I was just being gentlemanly.
Then a couple of other girls approached me. They were sorority sisters and my connection with the brunette was incredible and she matched my list of what I'm looking for in women. they were saying this and that it's our time to celebrate and we're getting a shot blah blah. It was loud in there so I assumed they were getting me a shot too so I stood up and opened my body language more but they were not expecting it because after I got their names the brunette said "It was nice to meet you" then winked with her left eye but she was not smiling. I definitly could have gotten her hot with some alpha attitude but I guess I'm not there yet nor driven enough to care. I must have not given off the right vibe for her.
Either way I finished up the night sitting out on the outdoor porch just checkin out everyone making their way into the bar as I finished my beer. I headed home with a bigger smile on my face than I had while in the bar lol. I def. enjoyed myself and the music. I even played an arcade game of bowling. I'll have to do that again in a couple of months to see what happens then.