10-18-2013, 04:32 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-18-2013, 04:48 PM by SargeMaximus.)
Put something in there where you value relationships with people more than how you are perceived.
When you worry about how people view you, you can not have any relationships whatsoever, either that or they are limited. If you enjoy CREATING, and building on relationships, you will be a very "Alpha" man indeed. That and if you can learn to accept others as they are and not care about the differences you may have, a lot of BS can slide, and you can enjoy people for who they are. You do, however, have to know, through and through, that you are "the man". You don't worry about your value or how you are perceived because it "goes without saying" that you are a high valued man.
Maybe add something where you are genuinely curious about other people too. You do not need to talk about yourself because, again, how awesome your life is goes without saying. You feel fulfilled, important, sexy, desired, and everything you could want from external sources ALL the time to the very core of your being.
One of the things I've noticed is when I am able to socialize and be open to creating new relationships, I bring people together, and we all become acquaintances. I imagine, with more development, I could do some great things with that. Be the man to unite the people around him so they don't have to walk alone any longer.
You are not a man who enters the place looking to "hook up" or "socialize". You are simply gracing everything you encounter with your presence. You love people, and value relationships. Not because you want to create a relationship, but because you enjoy creating FROM the relationship that is already assumed. Assume rapport.
Another thing I'd like to be able to do is create social situations. I may be comfortable around existing ones thanks to AM 5, but I still can not, and do not, create them myself.
I have a vision of myself that I create socialization, bring people together, and unite them under my leadership (and in the case of women, simply take my pick of those around me for my sexual needs, while maintaining relationships with any others that I enjoy the company of).
It's not a thing you work at either, it's only natural. People want leaders, and are already subconsciously looking for them (which is why advertising works, imo) so just display leadership, an open personality, and one who is not afraid to lead those who come to him, or drop those he doesn't wish to be around, and there you have it.
You do not look to "create" it, you simply flow ahead of it. People follow you, and you accept the responsibility to lead.
I imagine being "Alpha" is not too far off from that either.
Of course, all of this while remaining independent and non-needy. Enjoying the energy of socializing, nothing else. Enjoying the energy of women, nothing else. And enjoying the energy of life, and nothing else, while simultaneously enjoying your own energy above all.
EDIT:
Greatness. What do I mean by "Greatness"? An underlying feeling and knowledge beneath and surrounding everything you do. Every conversation you have has a great purpose, everything you say is divine, your path is enlightened, you are a great man, and you inspire greatness in others. You unlock their potential because you are already there yourself. You see it inside of them, and you encourage them lovingly to be the best they can be. You can see it everywhere, even if other people can't.
When you worry about how people view you, you can not have any relationships whatsoever, either that or they are limited. If you enjoy CREATING, and building on relationships, you will be a very "Alpha" man indeed. That and if you can learn to accept others as they are and not care about the differences you may have, a lot of BS can slide, and you can enjoy people for who they are. You do, however, have to know, through and through, that you are "the man". You don't worry about your value or how you are perceived because it "goes without saying" that you are a high valued man.
Maybe add something where you are genuinely curious about other people too. You do not need to talk about yourself because, again, how awesome your life is goes without saying. You feel fulfilled, important, sexy, desired, and everything you could want from external sources ALL the time to the very core of your being.
One of the things I've noticed is when I am able to socialize and be open to creating new relationships, I bring people together, and we all become acquaintances. I imagine, with more development, I could do some great things with that. Be the man to unite the people around him so they don't have to walk alone any longer.
You are not a man who enters the place looking to "hook up" or "socialize". You are simply gracing everything you encounter with your presence. You love people, and value relationships. Not because you want to create a relationship, but because you enjoy creating FROM the relationship that is already assumed. Assume rapport.
Another thing I'd like to be able to do is create social situations. I may be comfortable around existing ones thanks to AM 5, but I still can not, and do not, create them myself.
I have a vision of myself that I create socialization, bring people together, and unite them under my leadership (and in the case of women, simply take my pick of those around me for my sexual needs, while maintaining relationships with any others that I enjoy the company of).
It's not a thing you work at either, it's only natural. People want leaders, and are already subconsciously looking for them (which is why advertising works, imo) so just display leadership, an open personality, and one who is not afraid to lead those who come to him, or drop those he doesn't wish to be around, and there you have it.
You do not look to "create" it, you simply flow ahead of it. People follow you, and you accept the responsibility to lead.
I imagine being "Alpha" is not too far off from that either.
Of course, all of this while remaining independent and non-needy. Enjoying the energy of socializing, nothing else. Enjoying the energy of women, nothing else. And enjoying the energy of life, and nothing else, while simultaneously enjoying your own energy above all.
EDIT:
Greatness. What do I mean by "Greatness"? An underlying feeling and knowledge beneath and surrounding everything you do. Every conversation you have has a great purpose, everything you say is divine, your path is enlightened, you are a great man, and you inspire greatness in others. You unlock their potential because you are already there yourself. You see it inside of them, and you encourage them lovingly to be the best they can be. You can see it everywhere, even if other people can't.
