10-06-2013, 01:48 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-06-2013, 01:50 PM by LionMonkey.)
(10-03-2013, 03:08 AM)stratos Wrote: I noticed sometimes when my confidence goes up a notch from the subs I get the threatening look from guys. Once I get comfortable beingthat confident things go back to normal.
It might very well have an effect.
Actively doing something that takes a lot of focus can make other people competitive and they might think and want to prove that they are better.. but when you do that thing and it looks effortlessly.. that's power!
STAGE 3 - DAY 14 - A new level & the status games
I think it has soon been 2 weeks since I decided to meet at least 3 girls I do not know, every day.
Whether it has been in the pauses at class
or
if I didn't have the time of the day because of my studies,
I would go out at night on the week-days and
spend at least 1 hour to get it done.. even if that meant I only would only have 4 hours sleep before school again.
Well.. I can now say with full belief that it has become very comfortable meeting a girl now. I'm going in extremely solid most of the times.
My goal is to aim for 21-45 days.. the habit manifestation time period. It's gonna be 45 days at least where I actively do this.
And then we'll see if it will happen effortlessly everywhere I go.
The status games
Something I sometimes totally forget is:
how others perceive me because
I'm too wrapped up in my own fun.
And also my old self who cared a lot
about others not feeling bad about me rejecting
their attraction towards me that I make myself weak and lose balance.
It happened Friday night where some girl knew me from 4 years ago. She approached me and I knew she were extremely attracted to me.. mostly because I was SO much in love with myself that night.
That + I had to reject her lightly made me weak.
The only thing I felt for, was sharing that love and giving it out to the girls I met, yet most of the attractive, few girls didn't want to talk to me.
Then I experienced something I didn't understand because it was out of my reality:
I took a not-so-attractive girl and we sat down a bit isolated. We talked a bit, shooting the shit.. and I just wanted to kiss so I whispered in her ears, "Do you want to kiss me right now?"
And she said, "no" and broke the interaction seconds later.
So why am I telling all this?
Status.
I was too fun, like the clown. No seriousness and with a weak intent.
No qualifying.
Less attractive girls put my advances down and attractive girls didn't want to talk to me.
JOKE right?
It was definitely for me.
My standards were close to non-existent.
Be serious but not serious.
And that's exactly what my focus has been on after that night.
Interesting things are on the rise..
Girls be wanting my attention, my validation, my DICK :-)
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Besides the totally awesome badass actions lately, I've hit the gym 4-5 times a week + 1 cardio day a week. Getting B-I-G.
LIKE A BEAST!
Everything is kinda rolling for me (except school where I'm behind) and it feels fvcking good to be on top of my shit.
You should too.
Laziness & mediocrity is for the weak..
the ones who really don't want it badly enough.
Every day is a new day and you know what?
IT COULD BE YOUR LAST.
And honestly, you should LIVE IT AS IT WAS.
So do what you really want to do.
It's not about the ideal vision.
It's about what you are doing.
It's about the process.
Start doing things you know gets you closer.
And start enjoy doing them.
And keep on going through the bad times.
Reap your rewards.
Sooner or later, these ideal things will manifest into your life.
BOOM!
Later player.
- JL
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.