09-23-2013, 04:42 AM
All I can say is: Hold on with the parents thing.
A few years ago I was struggling to start a business. Things weren't working out like I wanted them to work out, to put it short: there was no money coming in, only money going out. I had finished my bachelor at this point and I had been offered several lucrative jobs, but declined them because I believed in myself and I knew I would make a break. I was still living at home with my parents at this point. So on any random night, nearly every single one of them, one of my parents would bring up the subject and talk negative. I would snap, even up to the point of throwing plates around and leaving the dinner table. Every single night, again and again, we got into fights. Me believing in my dream, they being negative about it. I learned a very important lesson in that time:
-Believe in yourself and stick to the plan, nomatter what people around you say. Never ever give up.
-People who don't have your kind of attitude (i.e independence, never give up, 'i will achieve success nomatter what) will be negative and subconsciously sabotage you (they don't want you to achieve success because they didnt themself; subconsciously)
-The universe is going to test you mercilessly, don't let it stop you and continue moving forward fearlessly
This process of struggle and resistance continued for almost two years. Then something critically happened and changed the dynamic. Nowadays, my parents are quite proud, because they see money coming in nowadays.
You are lucky that you have AM pushing you forward, I had nothing but myself to rely on. So just hold on, learn from the experience and cherish the strenght that is building inside.
A few years ago I was struggling to start a business. Things weren't working out like I wanted them to work out, to put it short: there was no money coming in, only money going out. I had finished my bachelor at this point and I had been offered several lucrative jobs, but declined them because I believed in myself and I knew I would make a break. I was still living at home with my parents at this point. So on any random night, nearly every single one of them, one of my parents would bring up the subject and talk negative. I would snap, even up to the point of throwing plates around and leaving the dinner table. Every single night, again and again, we got into fights. Me believing in my dream, they being negative about it. I learned a very important lesson in that time:
-Believe in yourself and stick to the plan, nomatter what people around you say. Never ever give up.
-People who don't have your kind of attitude (i.e independence, never give up, 'i will achieve success nomatter what) will be negative and subconsciously sabotage you (they don't want you to achieve success because they didnt themself; subconsciously)
-The universe is going to test you mercilessly, don't let it stop you and continue moving forward fearlessly
This process of struggle and resistance continued for almost two years. Then something critically happened and changed the dynamic. Nowadays, my parents are quite proud, because they see money coming in nowadays.
You are lucky that you have AM pushing you forward, I had nothing but myself to rely on. So just hold on, learn from the experience and cherish the strenght that is building inside.
