If every man is the best, is any man any different?
Also, I don't think it's nearly as much about "giving her the best sex ever" that makes women really want to have sex with a man. I know this from personal experience, and I learned the hard way that "you can't fuck a woman into being faithful".
What makes her want sex with you is much more than just you being a good lover. For a man sex is usually simple. Boobs? Boner! But for a woman, it's much more complex. She considers your ability to provide, offer security, consider her feelings, keep her reputation safe, how much she can trust you, how much you physically fit her love map, how good the sex is and a whole host of other factors as well.
She also hears from EVERY man... "I will give you the best sex EVARRRRRRR!!!!!!" all the time. It doesn't mean a damned thing to her at that point to hear it, even if it happens to be that he is telling her the truth. And if she has multiple lovers who are maxing out her ability to achieve orgasm or sexual pleasure - and given today's circumstances, it happens - that doesn't make her decide on you either.
Yes, be a highly skilled and considerate lover, but from there, BE DIFFERENT. Don't be one of many clones from which she already is bored. That is more valuable to her than "I will give you the best sex EVARRRRRRR!!!!!!"
Also, I don't think it's nearly as much about "giving her the best sex ever" that makes women really want to have sex with a man. I know this from personal experience, and I learned the hard way that "you can't fuck a woman into being faithful".
What makes her want sex with you is much more than just you being a good lover. For a man sex is usually simple. Boobs? Boner! But for a woman, it's much more complex. She considers your ability to provide, offer security, consider her feelings, keep her reputation safe, how much she can trust you, how much you physically fit her love map, how good the sex is and a whole host of other factors as well.
She also hears from EVERY man... "I will give you the best sex EVARRRRRRR!!!!!!" all the time. It doesn't mean a damned thing to her at that point to hear it, even if it happens to be that he is telling her the truth. And if she has multiple lovers who are maxing out her ability to achieve orgasm or sexual pleasure - and given today's circumstances, it happens - that doesn't make her decide on you either.
Yes, be a highly skilled and considerate lover, but from there, BE DIFFERENT. Don't be one of many clones from which she already is bored. That is more valuable to her than "I will give you the best sex EVARRRRRRR!!!!!!"
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
