Overcoming approach anxiety was no help

[TheGraduate]

how have you been listening to them speakers /headphones ? Also how much exposure per day/night?

I used it between 8-12 hours everyday with headphones during the day

and sleep-phones during the night. So I always had the stereo effect.

I was also out pretty much every single day in social settings and approaching women as opposed to just sitting at home expecting the 'magic' of healing to occur.

Based on this I feel is was unsuccessful which is a big shame. Has anyone else had any results to post that could shed some light on this?

I am still interested in other products and would like to give them a try as other people seem to have success with other products.

I did experience success with the program. I experienced a measurable drop in shame, guilt, and fear with an increase in confidence. When I stopped the program I did experience an increase in shame, guilt, and fear, which tells me the program was indeed working, since the lowering of such corresponded directly with my usage.

I did experience an increase in successfully approaching women as a result of using the program. However I think the OGSF portion of the program was doing most of the heavy lifting. I suspect that AA is genetically hard wired in men. I say this because I've never heard of someone permanently removing AA. Even the guys who do it for a living, at best, have discovered ways to temporarily remove the fear, usually by doing something ridiculous, which seems to trick that part of the brain responsible for AA. They call this getting into state, but don't let the terminology fool you - it is a direct manipulation the brain itself. Eventually the AA comes back and they have to repeat the process.

I could be wrong in my little theory. I need to go back someday and use the program for a full 96 days to be sure.