Thanks Spiralout, nothing wrong with approaching girls if that's what I want to do at the time.
Okay cool so is there an exercise or practice or something for bringing this grounded energy into my eyes?
Yeah it's a negative thought that comes up every now and then, I 'know' that direct is awesome and girls love it but this thought lingers around.
Thanks Ryan, I'm actually only a week behind you. I start stage 4 on the 12th of this month. Thing is you're noticing all this attention from women yet I haven't noticed any of that. I don't think I'm being impatient cos when I did the attract beautiful women subliminal for 1-2 weeks I did notice eye contact from women and then I do the bigger and better version and none of that happens. But hey maybe something will change in stage 4 who knows.
Also the affirmations I'm going to be doing are a lot different to your standard write them down 15 times or whatever. You actually have to get yourself into the alpha state (he recommends doing them one hour earlier than you would normally wake up) and instead of just writing or saying them you have to add emotion and powerful words plus there are three kinds - one is I, the other is you (imagine whoever you want saying this to you) and the third is he (you can imagine a group of people saying the affirmation). For example here's one of mine - "He is really good with women! Look at all the beautiful women checking him out! Amazing! They’re all whispering about him! Man he is so natural and charismatic! (random people) Vis – me going into a venue and girls giggling and whispering while looking at me and smiling" and you emphasise the power words.
Then there's critica link-breaking technique - where you see yourself doing something bad like not approaching because you're afraid and when you get to the point where you feel the fear you fire intense emotional affirmations and visualise yourself going up to her confidently.
It's a lot different to regular old affirmations
Okay cool so is there an exercise or practice or something for bringing this grounded energy into my eyes?
Yeah it's a negative thought that comes up every now and then, I 'know' that direct is awesome and girls love it but this thought lingers around.
Thanks Ryan, I'm actually only a week behind you. I start stage 4 on the 12th of this month. Thing is you're noticing all this attention from women yet I haven't noticed any of that. I don't think I'm being impatient cos when I did the attract beautiful women subliminal for 1-2 weeks I did notice eye contact from women and then I do the bigger and better version and none of that happens. But hey maybe something will change in stage 4 who knows.
Also the affirmations I'm going to be doing are a lot different to your standard write them down 15 times or whatever. You actually have to get yourself into the alpha state (he recommends doing them one hour earlier than you would normally wake up) and instead of just writing or saying them you have to add emotion and powerful words plus there are three kinds - one is I, the other is you (imagine whoever you want saying this to you) and the third is he (you can imagine a group of people saying the affirmation). For example here's one of mine - "He is really good with women! Look at all the beautiful women checking him out! Amazing! They’re all whispering about him! Man he is so natural and charismatic! (random people) Vis – me going into a venue and girls giggling and whispering while looking at me and smiling" and you emphasise the power words.
Then there's critica link-breaking technique - where you see yourself doing something bad like not approaching because you're afraid and when you get to the point where you feel the fear you fire intense emotional affirmations and visualise yourself going up to her confidently.
It's a lot different to regular old affirmations
