02-13-2013, 03:31 AM
(02-08-2013, 04:01 PM)Ryan Wrote: I remember during my first run-through of SM I slowly shifted from getting fed up approaching and 'trying' to actually laying back and watching all of the things I wanted fall on my lap. Now I did go out...a lot of it was online dating because I honestly didn't have the finances to go out a lot. And I was getting women messaging me through LoA and even on FB old girls popped up wanting to get together. With the mindset SM gave me it also made women want me instantly, unlike during my first run-through of AM, it was a bit harder for me to attract them.
However, towards the end of SM 1 I began shifting to this new mindset of being pursed. I struggled a lot with "should I talk to her...or wait" and I had many times I got a little desperate in the process and would still pursue. But at stage 6, I had it overwhelming and women, hot women, were pursuing me without me doing a thing. I just had to say yes or no and I was getting *****.
It's a slow shift but I think being pursued is the ultimate lifestyle which is why I wanted Shannon to put it into AM 5...hopefully when he does a new one...he will put that focus in there
Ryan
That's funny, I've always found that being pursued is a natural consequence of the AM set. Whenever I do AM, I don't really have the desire to seek out women in any way and tend to blow them off quite a bit. Well if a woman initially saw something she wanted to begin with in you then that's a major problem for her psyche to reconcile.
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