Do you consistantly approach Women?

[RainbowAbyss]

Hey ChaChaCha
first off, its awesome that your brave enough to try what your doing.
Like the other guys said, the problem is your coming from the wrong paradigm.
Your approach unconsciously sends the signal that you don't know what your doing, which in my opinion is actually fine and can be quite endearing but not if
your trying to gloss over it or hide it by being bold.
Plus your putting way to much pressure on them, and yourself for that matter, way to quickly.
Your doing sex magnet, and I've never done 2.0 but in 1.0 I transitioned from approach machine to doing almost nothing except meeting woman very naturally and having them approach me. So that may be why your approach numbers are dying down.
The greatest thing about meeting woman is that its a litmus test for 'how your being in the moment' and in your life in general. Sure sex with hot woman is great but more importantly to be the kind of man you want to be with woman you have to be the kind of man you want to be in life.
Even the most hot, sexually desirable-high value cool ass dude can't bust out of the blue and just do anything. Its all about noticing woman, their reality, authentically appreciating it, and your desire for them at the same time, and meeting them there. Be congruent, act whatever you feel, say whats on your mind, like you would a good friend, the more you speak your truth and don't hide where your at, the more fun you'll have, which is very attractive, the more comfortable you'll start to feel, which is very attractive, the more woman will actually be given the chance to connect to something with you that's real and trust me its not hard talking to someone about something you both actually relate to. Also the more congruent you'll be, which is ultimately what makes woman trust you, because woman can sense lack of congruence like a shark smells blood in the water.
Like Ryan said DEFINITELY do not go out with the intention to pick up chicks..its just way to easy to become a leering wolf this way lol.
Ask yourself, what would the most badass, loving, sexually abundant, living the life of his dreams CHaCHa do? Would he go out to a mall to intentionally meet chicks? Probably not. He might go out to the mall to pick up some new clothes or a book he is pyshced about and then have a blast meeting woman while he is trying on new clothes or checking out new reads.
Ryan's also dead on with the words not mattering. But you have to get to that point..don't worry if you keep doing what your doing you'll learn..you'll turn a corner and just get it..and never go back. Short of personal breakthroughs and epiphanies though it takes practice. The more you love yourself, your life, and woman unconditionally the easier it will be but woman won't jump on your dick cause your life's awesome..it takes relating to woman, and talking to woman, and that can take some getting used to with woman you just met. Talking to strangers and bringing them into your life is a bit of an art form..internally and externally. So stay easy on yourself-here's some stuff that might help.
You need to move from trying to sell yourself/ make things work, to just having fun with it and being inherently a qualifier. First things first, make standards for yourself-define EXACTLY what kind of woman you like behaviorally and physically, energetically etc. I suggest integrity be one of those standards. Also define why you want to meet woman...if its to work on your game-they can sense that and it inherently feels there being used or at the least the interaction feels flat and forced. Woman want to feel your presence, your solidity, your freedom of expression, your comfort with yourself and even your desire, your humor, they like to know you don't take them, or yourself, too seriously, (unless your in a relationship of course) Don't worry about 'pick up' or 'game' from now on you 'ARE GAME'. So its a mute issue. Its all about how your being and nothing to do with what your doing. You run out of things to say because your saying things FOR them, your TRYING to make something work, say stuff for you. Because you want to express, to share, you want to know about her.Like Morpheus said in the matrix-stop trying to hit me and hit me. Stop trying to talk to woman and actually TALK to woman. I'm sure that doesn't help lol
here's a quick list of what might..
1. Define what you want in woman you meet, what you will accept and not accept. Its your life, your world, your reality, your standards, you are the power, the king. (People who are like this, who feel really good about themselves inherently and know their worth, are really cool and fun to hang with, they might demand respect but their also extremely generative)
2. Define why your meeting woman in the first place. Not because your working on game. Your a great guy who loves woman, you love talking to woman, its fun, you might be interested you might not. Find out if she is actually someone you want in your life, like really, how would you talk to a woman if you knew she already liked you and you were trying to find out if you wanted to spend more time with her. Everything she does-means she likes you- calibrate a bit. let her come to you. Your the music..this is what you do..this is who you are..and she's responding to that. Be challenging in a fun way.
3. Go out to do YOUR thing and meet woman as you go along. To approach-observe their reality and make a comment on it. That's it-that simple. Ex: At the mall, She takes a bite of a pretzel and it looks really good-u-joking "Wow..I've never seen anyone look so happy about a pretzel". She's eating a pretzel but the line at the pretzel shop is really long "I was thinking of stealing your pretzel since I really don't feel like waiting on line." etc. etc. just pretend you already know her. At the station "man these trains take forever"/ "can't believe the train came so quickly". Woman might be a little reserved at first-show that your aware but her reactions don't phase you. Whatever she says-
4. Actually listen-her words will tell you everything-even "yeah the pretzel is good"--u"yea... I know a pretzel addict when I see em..U know what else is awesome-have you tried blah blah blah"/ her- "Yeah its the best thing I've had all day" u--"must be a pretty lame day" -her "no actually.." then she tells you about her awesome day or "yea, " then she opens up about a bad day...get her talking more then you. Leave space for her to fill it when appropriate. Its the most normal thing in the world to you. If you stall or blow out-make fun of yourself-"man, I never get the girl" "UH OH-your making me draw a blank.."do you always tongue tie all the guys you talk to". Only people who are comfortable with themselves can do this.
5. You never run out of things to say when you trust yourself and lead-focus on relaxing and enjoying the interaction..if you find yourself having trouble-just use any word she says as a jumping off point---"I just walked past the coolest store"-walking---coolest---stores---you can talk about any of those things--"I love just walking and seeing the crazy sh--t in windows" "the coolest thing"---"I was at this store blah blah"---"what was so cool about it...?" "why would you just walk past it...you gotta get in there". This are semi-retarded statements but the idea is that is doesn't matter if your just flowing with the interaction. Attraction happens or it doesn't...the rest is you just leading her where she wants to go anyway and having fun doing it.
6.. Your the qualifier but your also engaging, non-needy, giving her space, something fun and exciting in her normal day. Your not going uphill-your interaction is an extension of your good mood..your mojo, your social, and ultimately sexual, freedom in life. If you don't have mojo or a good mood-do something you love to get that before you talk to random woman in the day..or find something to get excited about.
7.. attraction=she is equally or more invested in the interaction then you. This comes from not trying to 'get' anything out of the interaction. No expectations, its just a dance-just keep leading--keep giving...you want to ask her something-ask it..you want to talk about something--talk about it...if she obviously likes you make plans and exchange info...later on you can start stating your intention- or how she makes you feel ..say it...especially at nightlife-when they already have assumptions about why your talking to them.
8. After things are in a groove.. Imagine your going to be/ already are f-cking and/or cuddling with them-while your talking..just a little bit and start relating from there. This takes some practice/getting used to but is so much fun.

Try going out to do something you like and instead of approaching just observe. Feel your body, how she makes you feel, what are you thinking? Can you get curious about her? What do you want to know about her? What can You observe about her reality? Where she is at. What can you appreciate about her?
Does her energy/presence throw you off center..? Can you breathe into that and relax?
who would you be... how would you feel... what would you do if you never had to worry about 'getting good with woman' again?