01-27-2013, 10:48 PM
Why does it feel like a chore?
I think there are a few aspects to this... and having a high libido or being already aroused is only one.
As a disclaimer, I have to admit that I seem to be more sexually charged and tactile than most women. It doesn't mean I don't have cycles or similar issues in some ways but I'll just mention a few things.
1. It doesn't matter how aroused you are already, if the sex isn't doing it for you... and I've been there with partners who just don't feel good. No chemistry, or poor skills it does feel like a bore and a chore. But that is where you need to step in and take control of your own pleasure.
I found orgasm enhancer for women to be a big big big deal. It made my breasts, for example, even more sensitive... to the point where it doesn't matter if I am actually in an ANTI sex mood. If I am cuddled up and my partner, without being pushy about sex at all this is very important, just plays with me gently for a while I'm moaning begging and screaming. Now, if you're horny from an arousal aid and your body just isn't feeling good during sex, it still doesn't make things satisfying for you even if it means you'll get into it more often with your partner. See what I mean?
2. It really is a treat to be able to amp up things ahead of time if you're not already raring to go. It's like the touches START at omg that feels so fucking good, and you get lots of that good feeling touch.... rather than starting off cold and then finally when you're heated up enough you only get a little bit of delicious feeling. I think this is brilliant and Shannon is providing such a gift to people with this.
If the sex is not enjoyable, do the orgasm enhancer and then start training the man to touch you in better ways. A man who can touch properly is a real treat.
I think there are a few aspects to this... and having a high libido or being already aroused is only one.
As a disclaimer, I have to admit that I seem to be more sexually charged and tactile than most women. It doesn't mean I don't have cycles or similar issues in some ways but I'll just mention a few things.
1. It doesn't matter how aroused you are already, if the sex isn't doing it for you... and I've been there with partners who just don't feel good. No chemistry, or poor skills it does feel like a bore and a chore. But that is where you need to step in and take control of your own pleasure.
I found orgasm enhancer for women to be a big big big deal. It made my breasts, for example, even more sensitive... to the point where it doesn't matter if I am actually in an ANTI sex mood. If I am cuddled up and my partner, without being pushy about sex at all this is very important, just plays with me gently for a while I'm moaning begging and screaming. Now, if you're horny from an arousal aid and your body just isn't feeling good during sex, it still doesn't make things satisfying for you even if it means you'll get into it more often with your partner. See what I mean?
2. It really is a treat to be able to amp up things ahead of time if you're not already raring to go. It's like the touches START at omg that feels so fucking good, and you get lots of that good feeling touch.... rather than starting off cold and then finally when you're heated up enough you only get a little bit of delicious feeling. I think this is brilliant and Shannon is providing such a gift to people with this.
If the sex is not enjoyable, do the orgasm enhancer and then start training the man to touch you in better ways. A man who can touch properly is a real treat.
