07-30-2010, 07:22 PM
So here's some interesting changes for me. Definitely beginning to notice eye contact more - and getting into personal magnetism and that sort of thing. Found a really interesting meditation.
I was feeling really pumped and excited all day friday. Lots of positive automatic visualisations. Then I got to the venue and it all overwhelmed me. Too many people, too loud etc. Normally I get somewhere early and I chill and that way the 'pressure' increases at a manageable pace. I did manage to hold strongish eye contact with girls, didn't really notice any eye contact from them though. As the place quietened down a bit, I saw this hot japanese girl at the bar by herself so went over and we chatted then grabbed a couch. When I had to leave I hugged her and kissed her on the cheek (something I never do). Got her fb found out she is in a relationship but everyone we meet opens doors
Met some friends of friends and spent the rest of the night chilling with them. One girl in particular was cute so will see what happens. Did have a pretty decent conversation with one girl at the bar but this place was quiet.
I was feeling really pumped and excited all day friday. Lots of positive automatic visualisations. Then I got to the venue and it all overwhelmed me. Too many people, too loud etc. Normally I get somewhere early and I chill and that way the 'pressure' increases at a manageable pace. I did manage to hold strongish eye contact with girls, didn't really notice any eye contact from them though. As the place quietened down a bit, I saw this hot japanese girl at the bar by herself so went over and we chatted then grabbed a couch. When I had to leave I hugged her and kissed her on the cheek (something I never do). Got her fb found out she is in a relationship but everyone we meet opens doors
Met some friends of friends and spent the rest of the night chilling with them. One girl in particular was cute so will see what happens. Did have a pretty decent conversation with one girl at the bar but this place was quiet.