07-25-2010, 11:17 AM
(07-25-2010, 11:05 AM)spiralout1988 Wrote: Feeling very confident but again somewhat antisocial. I went to a church service this morning with a buddy of mine and all the older moms were checkin me out. had some more intense connections yesterday at the lake with the youth group and same with this morning. It's going to be amazing once everything in my subconscious is reprogrammed and I start manifesting beautiful women around me everywhere i go!
What is it you mean by anti-social? Do you mean a lack of desire to socialise, or a discomfort to do so? When my confidence increased I found that one of the paradigm shifts I had was to 'socialise on my own terms', which at times could make me anti-social in the sense I just didn't want to socialise for whatever reason. I overcame this completely naturally as over a month or two confidence became the norm and I readjusted. I do think aloofness can be one of the growing pains of gaining confidence - it certainly was for me.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung
