12-18-2024, 01:12 PM
(This post was last modified: 12-18-2024, 01:48 PM by AbundanceCH.)
(11-26-2024, 09:51 AM)Shannon Wrote:Performance anxiety maybe? Maybe just a combination of all those things I already mentioned.(11-24-2024, 07:58 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: Currently i'm in a relationship and I have no issues with ED but I do wish I could last longer which is why i'm running OPE..but I remember the first time and a couple of times after the first time it was not a smooth thing to have sex with my current person. That has been the history for a lot (not all) of my sexual encounters (whether they be relationships or women that ended up being just flings). Maybe it's just the nervousness of that first sexual encounter and not being able to perform which led me to rush into finishing in the past which has become PE (my mind psychologically wanting to rush even though i'm with someone i been with for a long time).
That's what I think it's happening but I could be wrong. Usually after the first couple of times I have sex with a woman there's no issues. Maybe the nervousness/performance anxiety is gone/they learn how to turn me on etc etc.
Why do you have that nervousness? What is causing it exactly?
2 MONTH UPDATE:
I don't even know if it's part of the programming but I do feel a slight/small change in being "calmer" during sex however it has not stopped me having to stop or else i finish. I'm still having to do this multiple times in order to extend sex. Maybe there's some mental changes going on in the background but no physical results yet. Maybe those will come soon.
Will be in this for the long haul. Will keep you guys updated.