11-24-2024, 11:44 AM
(This post was last modified: 11-24-2024, 11:59 AM by AbundanceCH.)
(11-23-2024, 08:41 PM)Shannon Wrote:When I would meet someone new I would get ED during the first encounter and after that things would be fine. In my mind when I would meet someone new during our first sexual encounter I was just trying to get it up and just finish in order to have sex no matter how quick it was. I was just rushing just hoping to finish and have sex rather than our first encounter me not being able to get hard and walk away with nothing. So those first encounters were always very difficult and i was under a lot of pressure.(11-23-2024, 07:19 PM)AbundanceCH Wrote: I'm trying to it's a little difficult since this is a program where you can immediately tell if it's working based on what happens during sex he he. So there's an action that we can do to measure its success unlike most subs. But I get your point i'm being hopeful and just doing things normally without thinking about it.
1 MONTH UPDATE
No results yet but I understand this might take time. I know many people here get frustrated that they don't get sub results asap but we just can't expect fast results for issues we have had our whole lives. It's going to take time to fix such issues so i'm patient. I'm hoping by the 2nd month things improve.
Do you know specifically what the root cause is?
It was very hard to get it up during that first sexual encounter with a woman. When it comes to what I think was the mental reason of it my thought is the original core of that issue could have been former religious beliefs about sex/fear of sex and STDs/performance anxiety/lack of confidence.
I think that issue from the initial first encounter kinda stayed for during the duration of my relationships to where maybe in my mind I was still suffering from that first encounter and maybe my mind and body are rushing just to finish.
Do you think OPE can help me based on what I just wrote?