07-20-2010, 12:59 AM
Or you could choose them both. It's not always an option, but sometimes you can pull it off, if you are so inclined. You just have to be very careful to make sure they get equal attention and affection, if you go that route. It's usually not worth trying to have two or more at once though, so your options were what you did, or to sit them down and talk about it. "Look, ladies, I like you both, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. What do you suggest?" Then, of course, you do your own thing, but at least you were communicating, and including them in the what's what.
Communicating like this in a very open, honest way makes it really surprisingly frequent that you can end up with them being willing to share you.
Communicating like this in a very open, honest way makes it really surprisingly frequent that you can end up with them being willing to share you.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!