Shit-tests

[AbundanceCH]

I agree with you and that was entirely my point in the last message. She will not stop testing you.

You proposed threatening to go away when she tests you. So what do you do when she tests you again?
As we have established she will never stop testing you, so you either fulfill your threat and go looking for a new woman or you do not fulfill the threat, stay and fail the test. These are the outcomes I am aware of.

My post was a question about how you propose to proceed after threatening to leave.
Because you have passed one test, but I do not see how you will pass the further tests that will be coming. So I thought you could maybe elaborate on that part.

Wish you well
MM

It's all up to your own individual standards I can't answer that for you.

For example let's say a woman flirts with another man in front of you and then you call her out on her bad behavior.  Is that 3 strikes you're out or is that just her 1st strike? How old is your female? Is she young enough where you can coach her correctly or is she already too old for you to coach her out of her bad habits? If she's the latter maybe 3 strikes as you're probably won't be able to help her change.

How long have you guys been together? that's also a factor. How much do you like her? also a factor.

How often has she disrespected you?

There's a lot of factors involved.  It's not as easy as asking "what to do" but rather what are your own individual standards for certain situations and all the factors involved in a relationship.

I can give you my own examples.  

If a female does something disrespectful I lay out the rules in a calm but stern manner.  She has to know what she did is wrong and you're not happy about it.  Like when a strong father disciplines their bad behaving child you have to mean it.

Usually one strong warning is enough for her to not repeat the exact same thing but if she disrespects you in a different way later in your relationship that's when I give the warning of me leaving.  That's strike 2.  3 strike I'M OUT not her.

But again it depends on many factors. If it's flat out disrespect that's different than all the little s-tests females do to guys to test them when men are too into their feminine energy. You have to set your own standards.