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[WM Stage 1 - Day 9] – Fun, leading others thoughts & tonight vs last night


Hellooo



Last night was fuuun



Strangely enough there were a bit fewer people than Friday BUT 90% of the chicks we met were open



Same places, different vibes



The weather was also a bit cooler and it was perfect, not too hot outside



My friend and I met and talked for longer interactions with lots of 2 chick groups



Now the funny thing is this friend looks very similar to my other friend I went out with last night.



Good-looking, taller, blonde. He used to regularly go out but haven't been since like 1.5 years after c hit.



I was cooler tonight and the hot ones of the 2 groups, liked me and laughed at my jokes where the less hot ones were more blasé towards me.



I believe if I had been more leading and inviting, the girls would join us going to the other bars.



Actually 95% they would join us



But something in me doesn't want to do that.



It feels like I would be taking responsibility for their night if they came with us.



And I want to be a free horse.



When writing about it, I can see that it's an area I'm too uncomfortable with because of upbringing or fear.



Like.. when people stop what they are doing to follow you, because you invited them to join you, I feel I have responsibility that they will have a good time and enjoy themselves now



Maybe it's an integrity thing. Not sure where it comes from.



But I do think it's worth exploring next times opportunities come my way



What if they join me and I'm just doing my thing, as long as they are not alone and they have someone to talk with?



I think I would be fine.



Since they were all 2 chicks groups, it would be easy to test that out



Anyway..



Some difference from last night vs tonight:

• Chicks more open because of different vibes in the same places. also they were mostly in groups of two
  

 

• I felt more focused tonight. Yesterday I was ALL AROUND looking at every hot chick bc there are so mango. Distractions are what nightlife environment is. So the ability to focus on one or a couple of things at a time is key
  

• That has led me to have a stronger frame and therefore chicks would laugh at my jokes and excitedly join in on my white lies as well
  

• Instead of trying to get a reaction from chicks I was in a more curious mindset and more focused on what I wanted to do - night before I was trying to be social to get a reaction from the girls - subconsciously but when I think back it's clear
  

That's all I remember at the moment.



One girl told about when she turned 18, she wanted to try a threesome and did but was disappointed in the experience



Made me think if you are a ok good looking girl, it is easy to have various sexual experiences.



All in all, pretty fun and long interactions...

Pushing the boundaries will be the next level.


The journey continues on!



Have a great one!



-LM