07-11-2010, 02:06 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-11-2010, 02:08 PM by WildFlower.)
Quote:I guess what I'm wondering most is how have your behaviors changed. You said you couldn't approach anyone you wanted and you were really shy. So I'm curious how you acted around people then as opposed to now?
I wasn't really shy before I started the Alpha set. I was really shy a few years ago. I had built my confidence up, but approaching people was something I told myself I just didn't do. I probably told myself that to stay in my comfort zone and avoid having my confidence getting dinted. Now I can approach anyone at complete and utter ease. The Alpha set has done a lot more than allow me to approach people mind you.
Quote:And of course around women, especially beautiful women.
Attraction is something I haven't had to worry much about in the past few years. When I go out and about I wear the best pheromone mixes in the world so attraction comes really easily. For that reason I thought it couldn't get any better in that department but I was wrong. Women are in general much more receptive and responsive to me that before. It's almost effortless. It's as if they've been expecting me. Off course they haven't been expecting me per se, but they have been expecting someone with my characteristics and traits (instilled from the Alpha sub) that they melt like butter and want and will me for me to progress, and progress the interaction. It's no work at all. It's the look in their eyes, and the way they sit there and smile the more I talk to them. The percentage of girls attracted to me has shot up to. This has only really come about in the past month though as I've approached the end of the Alpha set.
Quote:I too experience the same thing. In fact, I was that way before I started self-improvement as well. People always wanted to talk to me and seemed to think I was a pretty cool guy but they were always intimidated. I never knew if it was because I was shy and quiet or maybe because I was nervous they also picked up on my nervous energy. Though I still never understood because these same guys weren't the same around other quiet/shy guys, especially those they looked down on. But now, since I've started self-improvement and at times with my confidence, still people seemed intimidated even when I was more outgoing. That's one thing that I noticed as well, it was because I wasn't at ease with myself and they picked up on it. I found that when I was extremely comfortable people were always at ease around me, especially when I was drunk or high, people opened up to me instantly.
I've never been able to get to the bottom of why I've intimidated people. I am 6"2 and moderately muscley, but I'm no meathead and I have a real baby face. It must be my vibe or aura. It seems to be more of a 'value' intimidation than a 'scared what he's going to do next' intimidation. Anyway people in general are much more comfortable around me. I'm not fully there yet (hoping women Magnet will help me here) but the specific kind of really friendly confidence I've got from the Alpha set makes me pro-actively try and make those around me comfortable. I think they get sucked into the indifferent confidence vibe of the Alpha set and this comforts them
Quote:To go off that, how do betas and shy people especially, respond to you now?
Shy guys are really nice to me, or secretly jealous and resentful.
Hope this helps.
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