07-11-2010, 09:26 AM
(This post was last modified: 07-11-2010, 09:29 AM by WildFlower.)
I keep recommending to people that they should disconnect from trying to see change as I believe this is the best way to approach it.
the way I see it:
You have a baseline level of attributes, and that baseline is equal as everyone else's baseline. Not everyone has the same baseline - some may have more confidence, or "feel more sexy" for example - but everyone's baseline is equal in the sense that you 'work with what you've got' or 'do the best you can within your - self conflicted - limitations'. Everyone has a baseline, and along with their baseline their own set of unique limitations. By listening to Subliminals you are changing your baseline in a direction that you want to, therefore the change is positive. Ultimately what you are doing is changing for the positive, which is good thing to remember if you have a bad day and not really feeling it. If you are doing the best you can to become what you want to become, and are taking responsibility for that change then that is all you can do. You are responsible for your own change, but you can not control the rate at which you change. Just relax, you're doing something great for yourself. Trust me.
the way I see it:
You have a baseline level of attributes, and that baseline is equal as everyone else's baseline. Not everyone has the same baseline - some may have more confidence, or "feel more sexy" for example - but everyone's baseline is equal in the sense that you 'work with what you've got' or 'do the best you can within your - self conflicted - limitations'. Everyone has a baseline, and along with their baseline their own set of unique limitations. By listening to Subliminals you are changing your baseline in a direction that you want to, therefore the change is positive. Ultimately what you are doing is changing for the positive, which is good thing to remember if you have a bad day and not really feeling it. If you are doing the best you can to become what you want to become, and are taking responsibility for that change then that is all you can do. You are responsible for your own change, but you can not control the rate at which you change. Just relax, you're doing something great for yourself. Trust me.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung