(10-17-2020, 11:01 AM)Shannon Wrote: 1. How old is this girl?
2. How far away from each other do you live?
3. How frequently do you talk voice as opposed to text?
The issue boils down further to, you both have a different style of communication. This can be worked through, but it's much easier to do if you can spend time in person.
1. 23
2. Well in UK we would be around a 2hr car journey so not that far however as you may recall im in europe doing my course and its my final year now. I have 1 year left literally and she completes her course in March and then gets working in August so we discussed how we would work at meeting up around then esp as covid has made it unsafe to fly and meet etc.
3. Voice talk WAS everyday but last 2 days we havent due to all this and ive realised she responds well to all my mushy talk and reassurances so I have been doing that all day via txt to her but she said today that she thinks she has a bit on her mind so shes not really been active. then she said but I hope you're ok and doing well.
I proceeded to then ask what is on her mind, lets talk about it. I want to know whats up. i want to know everything about you. Every single thing that runs through your mind good or bad. If you dont share with me who could you share it with baby?
She replied back later with: I just need to think about it first I think. You been upto much.
Me: Can you give me a hint as to what its about? I could perhaps help you gain some clarity?
She hasnt replied yet. Shes taking alot longer to reply, than she usually would but shes yet asking me how I am so im not sure if thats good or not. Im hopeless at this clearly
. I dont know if anything you can make of all that?Im wondering if the issue is ofcos me which means she must care if its consuming her perhaps and also her asking about me could be politeness or the fact shes attached to me? I dunno.
Thank you for caring though @Shannon, it really does mean alot - appreciate it brother!
and regarding my data:
Saturday 17 October - Day 4 of Cycle 3
Nothing to report as my mind is consumed with this girl and nothing else at the moment.
OF3 5.75.7G 13/15Vol
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
