How has FRM worked for you?

[Shannon]

Hey Shannon,

I'm not sure if it is helpful, but in my opinion, it should not matter too much if we have fear. Well, the fear should of course not get too big. But every fear can be easily overcome if the motivation or the faith is big enough. I don't want to get into Rule 4 stuff, but people can do incredible things just because they have faith or they believe in something.
If I look at it with NLP and the Dilts Pyramid it would be a level 7 resource to be used for the problem. Of course it is not always necessary but if you build something within the FRM that makes you "trust that everything is going to be alright" or something like that, then the fear level should automatically go down. Maybe you already did that in some kind of way.

I mean like, if you know deep inside of you that you will achieve your goal and you don't just know it, but you feel it, then the obstacles on the way don't matter anymore.

The problem with fear is that, depending on the personality, that may have little to no actual effect.  I tried that.  The issue is that when the dominant personality trait(s) are prone to fear they override the parts trying to have faith, even if you can get across to "trust everything is going to be alright".  The parts trusting will still be overridden by the fearful parts, because the fear is self referencing and self regenerating and self compounding.  

The fearful part will apparently always seek to imagine "what if" in the most negative possible way, which triggers... more fear.  So while this works in some cases, it does not work well, or at all, when the dominant personality trait(s) are prone to fear.