11-02-2019, 07:41 AM
(11-02-2019, 06:50 AM)findingme Wrote:(10-31-2019, 03:21 PM)Ale Wrote: That's a good point, but how can I like someone like that without actually knowing the person? If that's what's happening, it's a first for me
And more so, how is all of this related to my monetary goals?
I've wondered the same. Then I remembered something that used to come up regularly for me. Money is undoubtedly tied to our emotions since we tie it with success and failure. I'd lose money in a deal, and go through this storm of shame and unworthiness. During these times it made sense why some people are just not attracted to business. But what's the connection here?
I realized for myself I'd always connected relationships to money. For a long time I've seen myself being a main provider for a beautiful woman and a family, and we'd be secure. Losing money in deals equated with losing this dream I greatly desired, and negative thinking would take me down.
Essentially, I still connect the two. But E3 in UMS is still clearing blocks for me, so the story is yet unfinished.
Mmm, that is actually a very good point. I was raised with the idea that men have to support the family, which in part is true... Over time I've learned that women naturally seek for men who can provide. Even in this era when women are supporting themselves financially, nature and biology is always stronger and they will always be more attracted to high status men.
I always try to see the positive side of things and I realize the sub is working because all of these feelings are surfacing and I can notice them. Hopefully they go away soon and get replaced with better emotions and vibrations.
And I know I'm making progress here because I was one of those persons that hated business when things didn't go my way. This last year or so I started trading and whenever I lost money I was so frustrated and stopped doing it. Now I realize that my 8-5 job is not going to make me rich and I am 200% sure that I want to work for myself and have my business, so every time I lose a trader I'm like "it's ok, I'll win next one. This is a marathon, not a race"
