06-02-2019, 09:13 AM
The only thing that will give you a snowball's chance in hell of getting her back is becoming what she is willing to be friends with.
The becoming method can be used to "get her back" otherwise, but unless you change what you are vs what she needs, you will end up like I did with one of my ex's. I brought her into my life by using that method, and after 3 years our relationship ended. Then a year later I used it to "get her back". That did happen, but the same exact reason it failed the first time killed it the second time, because the reason we broke up was not changed. In that case, it was because she refused to grow up and take personal responsibility for herself, her choices, her actions and their consequences, and I refused to be her "daddy" to take care of her while she laid around watching South Park and eating microwave macaroni.
Unless the cause of the issue is resolved, the becoming method cannot do anything to keep the goal alive once it is achieved. So your real goal is to achieve the self growth you need to do that, and I'm willing to bet that once you do, like Darth Xedonias, you won't care about "getting her back" because you won't be basing your self esteem and self validation on what anyone else thinks.
Ironically, that is when she is most likely to be willing to be your friend again.
You refuse to give up because you can't handle the alternative right now, which is a fear that without her validation and approval, you have no value.
By the way, E3 was extracted from LTU5, and it is the same thing as what's in LTU5 except it does not make any provision for physical healing. It is also tuned to be more gentle, but that's not because it would be better with more power; on the contrary, it's because the level of power it has is what is best for achieving it's specific goals.
If you think E3 has been helpful for you after 3 months of use, then you can decide whether or not to get yourself a copy of LTU5. But for now, just use E3 according to the instructions and let the program do it's thing.
The becoming method can be used to "get her back" otherwise, but unless you change what you are vs what she needs, you will end up like I did with one of my ex's. I brought her into my life by using that method, and after 3 years our relationship ended. Then a year later I used it to "get her back". That did happen, but the same exact reason it failed the first time killed it the second time, because the reason we broke up was not changed. In that case, it was because she refused to grow up and take personal responsibility for herself, her choices, her actions and their consequences, and I refused to be her "daddy" to take care of her while she laid around watching South Park and eating microwave macaroni.
Unless the cause of the issue is resolved, the becoming method cannot do anything to keep the goal alive once it is achieved. So your real goal is to achieve the self growth you need to do that, and I'm willing to bet that once you do, like Darth Xedonias, you won't care about "getting her back" because you won't be basing your self esteem and self validation on what anyone else thinks.
Ironically, that is when she is most likely to be willing to be your friend again.
You refuse to give up because you can't handle the alternative right now, which is a fear that without her validation and approval, you have no value.
By the way, E3 was extracted from LTU5, and it is the same thing as what's in LTU5 except it does not make any provision for physical healing. It is also tuned to be more gentle, but that's not because it would be better with more power; on the contrary, it's because the level of power it has is what is best for achieving it's specific goals.
If you think E3 has been helpful for you after 3 months of use, then you can decide whether or not to get yourself a copy of LTU5. But for now, just use E3 according to the instructions and let the program do it's thing.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
