All Bulls**t Aside, Who's Actually Getting Laid with DMSI

[DarthXedonias]

Wait, so @Shannon I wanted to ask something. Based on what you said before in this thread does this mean there might be a "wall" for the affected side? I know you said it was a possibility but you didn't know if it would be needed. If such a thing is implemented would it be possible to make it without it taking away someones free will? Like you could possibly make the effects they feel (high sexual attraction towards the user) irresistible and inescapable but make it so there is lack of fear and they can choose freely of their own accord what they want to do absent of that fear. Seems like quite the balancing act.

There will be no wall for the affected side.  There will be an effort made to express FRM through the aura so that people affected are not being artificially hampered by their fears.  This is a very challenging balancing act indeed.  The key isn't causing them to be comfortable with the user in a friend zone sort of way, of course.  It is to make them comfortable with considering their own natural responses to what they think and feel toward the user so that they are willing to act on it if they can reasonably do so, without being coerced or tricked into doing so.  

It's kind of like presenting a very attractive pheromone signature and making sure the person is free to act without fear.  That doesn't mean they necessarily will choose to, or are free to, but they are much more likely to than if they are simply blocking their desires from a primitive irrational fear based knee jerk reaction.

@Shannon Ah, I know the highlighted part all too well. I'm pretty sure I've lost a couple of chances due to this alone. Most of the knee jerk responses I have seen that have cancelled out the effect have been: (1) Fear of what friends and family members will think if she gets with me, (2) Fear of what others will think due to a age difference, or (3) She is afraid of how being with me might affect her current relationships even if its apparent those current relationships aren't going to work out. This all includes at least 2 times where the women would perhaps be brave enough to give huge hints they are interested but as soon as I reciprocate that show of interest they run for the hills. Like they were comfortable with the idea of being with me in theory but when it could become an actual reality that is too much for them and they react in a very fearful and hostile way. 

I've had others who just start ghosting me or avoiding me like the plague because they are so fearful of dealing with their "feelings". I had another women who was obviously being affected during a class but she just crossed her arms and legs and kept taking angry glances at me from time to time. More like she was pissed for me causing her to feel this way because I think she might have been taken. I did find that #2 can be negated when I go to another country because unlike in the west in other places being with an older man who has even just a few years on you is not seen as something bad. It is looked at as normal. I do find that #1 is even more of a huge issue though and #3 might be an issue depending on the country in question. Would explained why I had much better success once I was out of the US. Hell, I had multiple 19 year old females flirting with me and wanting to be with me on my trip which wouldn't have happened in the US really. Those ones even if they felt something would have instantly reacted in a fearful manner like I had seen multiple times. 

Either way, I do agree with this most definitely. Its not only been me sabotaging myself but also those that get affected by the aura reacting with a fear response and either: (1) Ghosting/avoiding, (2) acting hostile instead, or (3) flirting majorly at first but once I reciprocate they freak out. Definitely seems like the Major crux though is this instant thinking about how other people will view her instead of doing something because its what she actually wants to do. That fear does make sense though since the majority of women seem to be very social conscious as in they definitely fear being judge by members of society.