05-11-2019, 10:03 PM
Zane, this is what I'm talking about in my above posts.
Talking around the lack of success, moving the goalposts away from lack of success after the fact, rationalising lack of success, vague and feel-good platitudes to buffer the lack of success.
Bottom line, the program has been aspirational, rather than transformational. That much is abundantly clear, and has been for a very long time. The first step to changing that, is admitting that. Trying to deny that will help nothing. We need to be upfront and honest about sub experiences, or this will never change. He needs to have honest information about experiences to go on. That is the point.
If Ampersnd is confused enough about the vagueness of journals and posts from DMSI to make a thread to literally clarify if any tangible sexual results are being achieved, that's a problem. Both in reporting methods, and in actual lack of tangible sexual results. Being honest is the only way forward.
Also Ampersnd, Oversoul is likely the "1" out of 8. He stated it was about exes or girls in his social circle. So, it's very possible, especially in the exes situation, there was already enough existing rapport and sexual chemistry for the interaction to occur. In these types of situations, it's messy to quantify, hard to tell what exactly DMSI did, if anything. I felt that important to note.
Fantastic discussion so far, gentlemen. I just want to say that.
Talking around the lack of success, moving the goalposts away from lack of success after the fact, rationalising lack of success, vague and feel-good platitudes to buffer the lack of success.
Bottom line, the program has been aspirational, rather than transformational. That much is abundantly clear, and has been for a very long time. The first step to changing that, is admitting that. Trying to deny that will help nothing. We need to be upfront and honest about sub experiences, or this will never change. He needs to have honest information about experiences to go on. That is the point.
If Ampersnd is confused enough about the vagueness of journals and posts from DMSI to make a thread to literally clarify if any tangible sexual results are being achieved, that's a problem. Both in reporting methods, and in actual lack of tangible sexual results. Being honest is the only way forward.
Also Ampersnd, Oversoul is likely the "1" out of 8. He stated it was about exes or girls in his social circle. So, it's very possible, especially in the exes situation, there was already enough existing rapport and sexual chemistry for the interaction to occur. In these types of situations, it's messy to quantify, hard to tell what exactly DMSI did, if anything. I felt that important to note.
Fantastic discussion so far, gentlemen. I just want to say that.
