(05-11-2019, 04:42 AM)Voytek Wrote:(05-11-2019, 04:09 AM)Greenduck Wrote: I have done no-fap since the beginning of the year, and I have experienced much less sexual drive than I had before. It's called the flatline in the community, which is really your mind resetting the to the way it should be aroused rather then the synthetic "sexdrive" that is caused by masturbation and porn. Maybe you are experiencing something like that as a result of some deeper healing.
You might be right since even thought I would like to deny that but I kept being wounded when I was a kid and I used to suppress the pain instead of letting it go. It was related to sexual issues too like suppressing my sexuality and escaping into masturbation.
I have some of the same issues. Deep shame and fear related to sexuality, probably something inherited from parents who haven’t dealt with their own issues. I would say keep the healing going and let it take the time that it needs.
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