06-23-2010, 02:57 AM
So it still felt weird around this girl today, didn't seem like it was because I'm attracted to her though. And on the way home a girl was sitting next to me and I looked at her a couple of times but felt weird again kind of like I expected her to like me sort of thing.
I've been feeling down for a bit but today felt pretty good, trying to remember to do more visualisation exercises. Also listening to a hypnosis/nlp thing which seems pretty cool.
So there wasn't a huge amount of eye contact etc today. Part of me feels that I'm doing something wrong. I'm still listening to the sub overnight and about 2 loops after work. Not getting any exposure at work because I'm in a highly dynamic role and constantly stepping away from my desk. But I'm getting about 8 listens each day. Is it possible that I'm doing something wrong? I do look for eye contact but don't get upset when the girl doesn't return it.
I do feel something negative when I think about myself and attracting girls. Not really sure what it is. Kind of like I don't expect or assume that they will find me sexy, badass, have to meet me, etc. So I'm probably giving off a vibe...how do I overcome this?
The reason I ask is my mindset isn't really changing, and I'm not really getting any external signals that change is happening apart from the occasional random event. Whereas when I listened to Becoming Irresistible to Women there wasn't so much an obvious mindset change but the external eye contact was totally obvious and that was after less exposure than I've gotten with woman magnet...is this normal?
I've been feeling down for a bit but today felt pretty good, trying to remember to do more visualisation exercises. Also listening to a hypnosis/nlp thing which seems pretty cool.
So there wasn't a huge amount of eye contact etc today. Part of me feels that I'm doing something wrong. I'm still listening to the sub overnight and about 2 loops after work. Not getting any exposure at work because I'm in a highly dynamic role and constantly stepping away from my desk. But I'm getting about 8 listens each day. Is it possible that I'm doing something wrong? I do look for eye contact but don't get upset when the girl doesn't return it.
I do feel something negative when I think about myself and attracting girls. Not really sure what it is. Kind of like I don't expect or assume that they will find me sexy, badass, have to meet me, etc. So I'm probably giving off a vibe...how do I overcome this?
The reason I ask is my mindset isn't really changing, and I'm not really getting any external signals that change is happening apart from the occasional random event. Whereas when I listened to Becoming Irresistible to Women there wasn't so much an obvious mindset change but the external eye contact was totally obvious and that was after less exposure than I've gotten with woman magnet...is this normal?
