being true to oneself, regardless of what others think, is a very important thing, and it is a great way to polarize yourself socially - which is also important. If everybody likes you, then you aren't letting your inner light shine brightly enough, because no way in hell will everyone like any one person on earth.
Have you noticed that the most beloved people tend to also be the ones who have the most polar response from people? The more you are true to yourself, the more people can decide you do or do not fit their ideas of whom they wish to spend time with. Those who are not compatible will fall away and disperse, and those who admire you will be magnetically and almost magically attracted to you.
It's like the old business saying: 80% of the sales come from 20% of the customers. Focus on that 20% and let the rest go. Likewise, 80% of your attention will come from the 20% who really align with you if you let your inner light shine and show people who and what you really are. Since the other 80% would be time wasters, you can safely ignore them.
I'm not saying you want to go so far that you have fanatic followers and people sending you death threats of course, but being yourself is how you are going to genuinely succeed at finding happiness with the ladies.
Have you noticed that the most beloved people tend to also be the ones who have the most polar response from people? The more you are true to yourself, the more people can decide you do or do not fit their ideas of whom they wish to spend time with. Those who are not compatible will fall away and disperse, and those who admire you will be magnetically and almost magically attracted to you.
It's like the old business saying: 80% of the sales come from 20% of the customers. Focus on that 20% and let the rest go. Likewise, 80% of your attention will come from the 20% who really align with you if you let your inner light shine and show people who and what you really are. Since the other 80% would be time wasters, you can safely ignore them.
I'm not saying you want to go so far that you have fanatic followers and people sending you death threats of course, but being yourself is how you are going to genuinely succeed at finding happiness with the ladies.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
