(05-21-2018, 04:28 PM)Shannon Wrote: and for you to be laboring under this delusion is almost comical given how readily available and repeated proof to the contrary is all around you.That's my line... We aren't observing the same proofs then...You're the one mentioning black and white thinking and yet you state a lot of absolutes in your posts. Not all women are alike. I am not a womanizer but I know this much.
I am just saying covering both fronts (love and sex) is likely to score more points then just one.
DMSI focuses on sex only and as we are seeing it isn't enough to generate genuine interest in the targets. If women see a DMSI user as just another walking dick no wonder they flake or make no effort at all to genuinely connect. Of course there's fear and so many other reasons but sometimes it can be because they lack any genuine interest. "meh it's just another dick. Why would I go outta my way to chase? ".
Something like that... Does that sounds crazy?
If Romance isn't compatible with DMSI then anything else that helps to connect is better... It's just that love is a powerful and driving energy.
Not sure about a Romance only DMSI, I don't see the point of excluding sex all together.
