(05-09-2018, 11:27 PM)subliminalsrcool Wrote:(05-07-2018, 12:37 AM)Zane Wrote:(05-06-2018, 11:18 PM)subliminalsrcool Wrote: So today I think I realized that I am more mature than my own parents. It is just ridiculous how upset my parents get just because their Pizza Hut pizza is not Pan style and how angry and pissed both get when it is only thin crust.....like seriously? over pizza??? My dad told me that "if I next time order a thin crust pizza again, he will toss me out of the car" wow just wow. Of course he didnt literally mean it but get over yourself dude its only pizza. I handled them in a mature assertive tone I guess at least I thought anyways and they were being immature shouting at me just because they "thought" I did made it thin crust on purpose (which I didn't).
In this scenario, I felt shock when they actually had the nerve to shout at me (usually if their pizza is wrong they will act as if I committed a serious offense); I did feel the shock because of their over reaction on a measley pizza but after that feeling, I went back into the cool and calm mode asserting my innocence that it didn't happen on purpose. I didn't get mad or feel annoyed I just asserted my stand, didn't even shout.
I guess ever since MLS, I don't argue with no one anymore, and maybe it is making me more mature and maybe teaching me some assertiveness. Unfortunately my parents still regard me as a nobody even though I am not seeking their approval that I am actually changing. They don't validate the change they just treat me like they still dominate control.
Quick backstory - I have this belief that I am emotionally controlled by my parents whether they realize it or not. I might be a victim of emotionally abusive parents. I could be wrong but it might be the case. Or they may notice some changes going on in me just don't want to accept it and still maintain that dominant control.
I have experienced the same thing....You will noticed how immature people are and childish things they do. I kinda miss MLS lol
I can tell we may not be so different at all, Zane. Side note, I am also Indian. But I live in the States.
Nice.. I wonder what other things we have in common
