06-16-2010, 12:28 PM
@WildFlower-Great story man! I know what you mean about hurting girl's feelings. The girl that I'm seeing wants a relationship out of me and I won't do it so I feel bad at times but I was completely honest and told her straight up, I want to be single and fool around with you only (I just don't have an emotional connection to her). And she was 100% ok with it, well maybe 80%, she still wants a relationship but she doesn't want to loose what we have either, she loves the sex and really loves being with me. Honesty is key! Tell her straight up, you don't want something serious right now, tell her what you really want. As in, dating other girls, having sex with girls, 1 steady relationship, know exactly what you want and be honest with her And from the sound of it, she's trying too hard to get you.