Hello Guys 
thanks for the responses!
Can you maybe go into abit more detail concerning the emotional core personality? Maybe i can get a few additional hints and improve the process even more due to that, or work on some more important aspects to push myself forward.
Yea i plan to add SM after AM, you guys get so great results from that, that all i can be is hyped!
Achieving the posted goals is really huge for me. I know that i can get there if i just put the work in. If i compare to myself to now from when i started 2years ago.. i can just say there are world diffrences. With AM i really feel though that i am walking the stairs closer to my goals and that alone is already a great feeling!
Hey Smash, ich komme aus Unna. Das ist nen ruhiges Städtchen in der nähe von Dortmund. Schön mal jemanden aus der eigenen Heimat zu treffen, mit dem man sich über das Thema mal austauschen kann. Aus welcher Ecke kommst du denn ? Vielleicht kann man ja mal was feines Arrangieren.
Day 9 - 17.02.2012
Today i tried to lead my coworkers to the food place of my choice again. As expected I had some complications there. We are a group of 3-5 people. We usually try to always go at the same time and to the same place, this is not always possible due to diffrent workoverload. Anyway today it was just me and 2 other guys. I wanted to go to a diffrent place then the other 2.
Me: "I'm sorry but this morning i decided that i would go there no matter what, becouse i wanted to try some new food out there"
Them: "Cmon you must be kidding right? We always go together and the food is gonna be really good at this place also"
Me: "No sorry if you want you can join me, i dont really mind"
At that point they were almost convinced into coming with me and i guessd if i would have pushed it there i would have gotten them.
Them: "Did we do anything to make you angry?"
Me: " No, no of course not. I just decided to go there today and i will go through with it"
Them: "Okay but u wont get angry if we go to xxx right?"
Me: "Nah just go"
After that we split and went out to eat seperatly. It did bother me abit that i was alone while eating, but if i reflect now about what happend i feel proud of myself becouse i hold my ground and did what i wanted to do. Once i got home i felt really tired for some reason. After reading abit in the book i thought to my self "Hmm i've always wanted Male wrist bracelet" (I was at the dressing part of the book
). After motivating myself i went out and bought the one i liked the most. I did some light bantering with the Salesclerk and went dancing after that. My Partneress instantly noticed it and complimented me on it.
Her: "Hey what do you have there?"
Me: "I just felt like getting this today and so i did"
Her: "Yea was a good choice, that one really fits you and looks good on you"
Okay thats all for today guys, now as i am really tired ill go and relax to some sweet stream sounds (see what i did there)
thanks for the responses!Quote:Nice post, ChaCha! If you're getting results like this so quickly and obviously, you probably have an emotional core personality, and you'll see a lot easier success than the other personality types usually do. It will be easier in that it will be accepted more quickly and readily; you'll still have to go through the internal work though.
The book is to make sure everyone understands the same base level of what an alpha is, which helps normalize the results for everyone. If it's already stuff you know, just keep it as a refresher, like you said.
Can you maybe go into abit more detail concerning the emotional core personality
? Maybe i can get a few additional hints and improve the process even more due to that, or work on some more important aspects to push myself forward. Quote:You're going to accomplish these, only a matter of time Wink
And...you can always add SM or WM if you want afterwards, will take you to the next level Smile
Ryan
Yea i plan to add SM after AM, you guys get so great results from that, that all i can be is hyped!
Achieving the posted goals is really huge for me. I know that i can get there if i just put the work in. If i compare to myself to now from when i started 2years ago.. i can just say there are world diffrences
. With AM i really feel though that i am walking the stairs closer to my goals and that alone is already a great feeling!Quote:eah ChaChaCha, I´ve read that you´re from Germany,... ich bin auch aus Deutschland ;-). Aus welcher Ecke kommst du?
Hey Smash, ich komme aus Unna
. Das ist nen ruhiges Städtchen in der nähe von Dortmund. Schön mal jemanden aus der eigenen Heimat zu treffen, mit dem man sich über das Thema mal austauschen kann. Aus welcher Ecke kommst du denn ? Vielleicht kann man ja mal was feines Arrangieren.Day 9 - 17.02.2012
Today i tried to lead my coworkers to the food place of my choice again. As expected I had some complications there. We are a group of 3-5 people. We usually try to always go at the same time and to the same place, this is not always possible due to diffrent workoverload. Anyway today it was just me and 2 other guys. I wanted to go to a diffrent place then the other 2.
Me: "I'm sorry but this morning i decided that i would go there no matter what, becouse i wanted to try some new food out there"
Them: "Cmon you must be kidding right? We always go together and the food is gonna be really good at this place also"
Me: "No sorry if you want you can join me, i dont really mind"
At that point they were almost convinced into coming with me and i guessd if i would have pushed it there i would have gotten them.
Them: "Did we do anything to make you angry?"
Me: " No, no of course not. I just decided to go there today and i will go through with it"
Them: "Okay but u wont get angry if we go to xxx right?"
Me: "Nah just go
"After that we split and went out to eat seperatly. It did bother me abit that i was alone while eating, but if i reflect now about what happend i feel proud of myself becouse i hold my ground and did what i wanted to do. Once i got home i felt really tired for some reason. After reading abit in the book i thought to my self "Hmm i've always wanted Male wrist bracelet" (I was at the dressing part of the book
). After motivating myself i went out and bought the one i liked the most. I did some light bantering with the Salesclerk and went dancing after that. My Partneress instantly noticed it and complimented me on it. Her: "Hey what do you have there?"
Me: "I just felt like getting this today and so i did"
Her: "Yea was a good choice, that one really fits you and looks good on you
"Okay thats all for today guys, now as i am really tired ill go and relax to some sweet stream sounds (see what i did there
)
