01-02-2018, 10:24 AM
Ok, I stopped UD about two weeks ago. With all the breaks I used it for bit more than two month, but not at once. Besides body detox I noticed that I am usually more open emotion wise and can faster disconnect from emotional toxic topics. It is a very subtle sub at all.
On NYE I was out. I had at least five women there who seemed interested, with two of them it was more noticeable than with others. One of them looked so often in my direction that I started to feel uncomfortable. The other one was really cute. None of them approached me and I didn't approached any of them. Note to myself: I need more balls.
I have been thinking about the reason why I didn't do anything and the first answer I got was "fear of rejection". Then I tried to find out why there was fear of rejection and I discovered that this is because "fear of failure". I also found out that the fear of failure is connected to women because in my other life areas it is not that much present. And first I couldn't find out why there was so much fear of failure but today after waking up I realized "I want to fulfil women's expectations". Which is no wonder since I was most time raised by my mother and grandmother because my dad and grandpa were working a lot. And when I look at todays society it is like all the society is trying to fulfil women's expectations. However, I really need to leave it behind and start fulfilling my own expectations, no matter if I loose or win women as result. So far.
By the way, does anyone have a good approach for tinder? And things what I can talk about on tinder. I have had some matches recently but all I figured out were boring things and therefore got no response.
On NYE I was out. I had at least five women there who seemed interested, with two of them it was more noticeable than with others. One of them looked so often in my direction that I started to feel uncomfortable. The other one was really cute. None of them approached me and I didn't approached any of them. Note to myself: I need more balls.
I have been thinking about the reason why I didn't do anything and the first answer I got was "fear of rejection". Then I tried to find out why there was fear of rejection and I discovered that this is because "fear of failure". I also found out that the fear of failure is connected to women because in my other life areas it is not that much present. And first I couldn't find out why there was so much fear of failure but today after waking up I realized "I want to fulfil women's expectations". Which is no wonder since I was most time raised by my mother and grandmother because my dad and grandpa were working a lot. And when I look at todays society it is like all the society is trying to fulfil women's expectations. However, I really need to leave it behind and start fulfilling my own expectations, no matter if I loose or win women as result. So far.
By the way, does anyone have a good approach for tinder? And things what I can talk about on tinder. I have had some matches recently but all I figured out were boring things and therefore got no response.
In theory, theory and practice are the same. In practice, they are not.
