01-29-2012, 05:56 PM
Thanks Shannon, I'm going to try the language programs.
I can't really tell when It started, I wouldn't say aggressive words or things that I would otherwise not speak or really hesitate to say to a girl before. Now I'm more confident and cocky to say what's on my mind and what I want in women even though I get rejected. I like the feeling of not regretting what I said and have not said afterwards and more importantly being honest. In the past I would be in a spiral of thought of how well my conversation with a woman I liked ended and I would analyze every detail if I had made the right choice to make her like me. Now I don't even care if she doesn't like what I said or whether she liked me. I'm a little bit jealous of other men she talks to but it will go away soon.
My neediness has gone down a lot. I remember being attention and approval seeker from women I'm attracted to every chance I can get and it ends up them being annoyed. I feel they avoid me because of that. Nowadays I just stay put where I am, whether it's watching a movie at dorm or in my laptop surfing and they'd pass by, I feel some urge to get attention but I don't act on it anymore. They would sometimes come over and see the movie a bit, but now I get annoyed because they distract me and it feels a little awkward. I tell them that and I feel that they come back more often now, but more importantly I feel good about just being honest and straightforward.
I can't really tell when It started, I wouldn't say aggressive words or things that I would otherwise not speak or really hesitate to say to a girl before. Now I'm more confident and cocky to say what's on my mind and what I want in women even though I get rejected. I like the feeling of not regretting what I said and have not said afterwards and more importantly being honest. In the past I would be in a spiral of thought of how well my conversation with a woman I liked ended and I would analyze every detail if I had made the right choice to make her like me. Now I don't even care if she doesn't like what I said or whether she liked me. I'm a little bit jealous of other men she talks to but it will go away soon.
My neediness has gone down a lot. I remember being attention and approval seeker from women I'm attracted to every chance I can get and it ends up them being annoyed. I feel they avoid me because of that. Nowadays I just stay put where I am, whether it's watching a movie at dorm or in my laptop surfing and they'd pass by, I feel some urge to get attention but I don't act on it anymore. They would sometimes come over and see the movie a bit, but now I get annoyed because they distract me and it feels a little awkward. I tell them that and I feel that they come back more often now, but more importantly I feel good about just being honest and straightforward.
