Tiger's Blood - DMSI 3.01A Clearing - Don Juan, Hugh Hefner, Charlie Sheen, Rayhon

[Raykon]

Shannon I'm curious as to why you think / analyzed that I'm trying too hard. What specifically do you mean? I mean other then writing these posts I never think about them when I'm at home. I write these posts so you guys can get a story type journal of my experiences with these waitresses and what's to come in the future.

I'd like to know what you mean because you're usually right about these things.

Did not see this until I saw you asking me to answer it.

What I am referring about by trying too hard is basically focusing too much on trying to gain the approval of the attractive females you are interacting with at work. In my opinion, you are trying too hard and worried about it too much.

I can't know specifically what's going on beyond what you tell me, but I do like to try to help if I see something I think might be helpful. So if my point of view is valid and useful, take it into consideration.

Thank you for the response! I figured you didn't read it because you posted your reply to the thread one minute after I posted the question so you must have just missed it.

I appreciate the advice, I think your right. However I don't think in person I show off any signals of needyness or show the woman I interact with that I am desperate or really wanting to hook up with them.

I focus on my job completely when I'm at work, and basically ignore them otherwise. However I do agree that I need to just chill out and stop being outcome dependent.

I haven't been around allot of women my age (almost none) in the last 2 years because of my probation so I do have a bit of neediness that has piled up. I've interacted with allot of older women at the dog park and the last date I went on was last year with a women 8 years older then me. she was 29 at the time.

I need to just relax and focus on my job and if it's meant to be it's meant to be. I think DMSI will work it's magic.

If you have any advice on the best way to approach this situation I'd appreciate it. Since I see them 3-4 nights a week I figure i'll take it really slow and just let them become attracted to me by seeing my personality naturally instead of me forcing anything or being blunt about it.

However if they give me any signal at all that they want me to hang out with them I will obviously ask them out.