One thing I notice is that nobody tells you how to be sexy. We have to try to figure out what is sexy on our own. Well what if, like me, you happen to model "what is an attractive man" on someone who has a completely different body type? Growing up, I saw my favorite uncle getting all the girls. He was good looking, muscular, and a surfer. I thought, "He must be sexy, because he always has beautiful women around him. I should try to be like him." But I couldn't... I don't have the same body type at all, and no matter what I did, I gained strength, not bulk. I tried to learn to surf, but I don't live anywhere near the ocean... and my interests were completely different. Surfing really didn't interest me.
So I kind of gave up. I didn't think of myself as sexy, but I had no idea what sexy should be. It never crossed my mind during high school that I had attracted a group of both guys and girls who looked up to me for my own qualities, and that maybe I was sexy to these girls and considered someone to be emulated by the guys. It wasn't until college that I figured one of the most important truths of all: other people decide what they think of you, primarily, through what you say about yourself. Attitude, body language, speech and actions. Very few people are willing to think for themselves, so they will either believe whatever the herd professes to believe, or they'll basically sit back and let you tell them what to think about you!
Later I discovered another fascinating truth. The less interested you are in women, the more interested they tend to become in you. A man who has options is a high value man, and he has no need for any particular woman because he can have them all. This separates the "haves" from the "have nots", and women can spot this a mile away.
The Woman Magnet approaches the situation by disconnecting the neediness, if there is any, and translating your interest in women into playing with them, flirting with them, having fun with them, being friends with them... all the things a "playboy" would be doing. And, if you happen to like one of them, it helps make dating and/or sex happen easily and naturally. But the point is, women fundamentally want to have fun, and they want to have fun with guys they find attractive. So the woman magnet program gives you the characteristics of one of the masculine types they find attractive (the carefree playboy). I think you'll find it works quite well, too.
But women should always come second. It's fundamentally al about self improvement first and foremost.
So I kind of gave up. I didn't think of myself as sexy, but I had no idea what sexy should be. It never crossed my mind during high school that I had attracted a group of both guys and girls who looked up to me for my own qualities, and that maybe I was sexy to these girls and considered someone to be emulated by the guys. It wasn't until college that I figured one of the most important truths of all: other people decide what they think of you, primarily, through what you say about yourself. Attitude, body language, speech and actions. Very few people are willing to think for themselves, so they will either believe whatever the herd professes to believe, or they'll basically sit back and let you tell them what to think about you!
Later I discovered another fascinating truth. The less interested you are in women, the more interested they tend to become in you. A man who has options is a high value man, and he has no need for any particular woman because he can have them all. This separates the "haves" from the "have nots", and women can spot this a mile away.
The Woman Magnet approaches the situation by disconnecting the neediness, if there is any, and translating your interest in women into playing with them, flirting with them, having fun with them, being friends with them... all the things a "playboy" would be doing. And, if you happen to like one of them, it helps make dating and/or sex happen easily and naturally. But the point is, women fundamentally want to have fun, and they want to have fun with guys they find attractive. So the woman magnet program gives you the characteristics of one of the masculine types they find attractive (the carefree playboy). I think you'll find it works quite well, too.
But women should always come second. It's fundamentally al about self improvement first and foremost.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
