AYP and DMSI

[Shannon]

They'll stay or go. The AYP is your perfect person whereas the ones met or manifested on DMSI are not perfect, just that you found them desirable enough to want to have sex with.
Your AYP will be cool with your cheating or if not they will go away. I guess it depends if "putting up with my perpetual cheating" is a perfect quality you want them to have.

It's not exactly "cheating" if it's agreed upon and out in the open.

AYPL found me B, and then it pulled in K. B and K were identical in a lot of ways. While I was dating B and K, with both of them not only knowing that but simultaneously being present and participating in sex with me, J showed up and started being one of my lovers/girlfriends also. All of them met, knew one another and knew I was dating and doing them all.

But over time, the natural urge of most women is to try to achieve exclusive mating rights, and they began breaking the rules about being honest and trustworthy in an effort to have me all to themselves. They were one by one dismissed as I found them doing these things, until I had B alone.

Women will do astonishing things to have a chance with a man of high enough value, including share him with other females. If he has the dominance and money to enforce his will, he can achieve a state of perpetual equilibrium and keep them all forever. I lacked the finances, and once I saw what they were doing, lacked the trust in them to be willing to keep them.