09-10-2011, 10:15 PM
I have the same issue, even after running am2011.
There's no quickfix, you just have to go up and do it. We learn by social experiment, the only way to overcome this lack of approach anxiety is to get up there and learn what's effective once you talk to a stranger. The AA that you're getting isn't really AA, since i assume you aren't nervous, but what I call it is that you haven't had enough experience learning exactly what to do/say when you do approach a woman.
There's no quickfix, you just have to go up and do it. We learn by social experiment, the only way to overcome this lack of approach anxiety is to get up there and learn what's effective once you talk to a stranger. The AA that you're getting isn't really AA, since i assume you aren't nervous, but what I call it is that you haven't had enough experience learning exactly what to do/say when you do approach a woman.
